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[owen4u1904]

Originally Posted by apocalipstic

So sorry you are going through this! So sorry!

You are very brave for talking about it!

Does your family have to be a part of your therapy? It sounds like you could use some one on one time with the therapist till you get your head together.

I wish you all the best and know that we are thinking about you!

I think so, I have already been going by myself. This is my 3rd try and each time I quit before the family starts to come. My family does not discuss things that have made a huge impact in my life. My therapist did say I need to stand up for myself which is a weakness of mine cause I dont.

[Apocalipstic]

Originally Posted by rbentley1904

I think so, I have already been going by myself. This is my 3rd try and each time I quit before the family starts to come. My family does not discuss things that have made a huge impact in my life. My therapist did say I need to stand up for myself which is a weakness of mine cause I dont.

Do you live with your family?

[owen4u1904]

Originally Posted by apocalipstic

Do you live with your family?

Yes I do. I had my daughter without any money and its not that easy trying to save up money when you have to pay bills.

[Medusa]

Rb,
I just wanted to come in here and wish you some love and peace. It sounds like you are going through a lot and need some extra support.
Remember that you are perfect just the way you are, that your history and your trials are all part of that perfection.

I hope you are feeling some love these days. Keep your head up.

huggle,
me

[Rockinonahigh]

Rb
I know how hard it is to deal with family that gives u to no end of probs.Hear we have a place called harmony house its a place for women and kids to stay till they can get on theire feet.They also help with education,Dr,s and gov.assistance of all kinds if u need it,they have job training and job placement.Look around and see if u can find a place like that then see what they can help u with..hear they will pick u up if u need a ride to the place.
I wish they had a place like it when I was 19 cause I shure would have taken advantage of it.Much luck my friend.
Rockin

[owen4u1904]

Originally Posted by Rockinonahigh

Rb
I know how hard it is to deal with family that gives u to no end of probs.Hear we have a place called harmony house its a place for women and kids to stay till they can get on theire feet.They also help with education,Dr,s and gov.assistance of all kinds if u need it,they have job training and job placement.Look around and see if u can find a place like that then see what they can help u with..hear they will pick u up if u need a ride to the place.
I wish they had a place like it when I was 19 cause I shure would have taken advantage of it.Much luck my friend.
Rockin

I actually helped volunteer at an abuse shelter. I asked my trainer if I would quialify (sp?) for it but under the law we have for the house it is only for women who have been physically abused. It has been a good two or three months since we have had a client in our home and I was not thinking about 3 weeks ago when I redid my bathroom and I put the same decor in it. You can find it at K mart and it talks about love, hope, passion, faith, etc.

and Medusa, thank you. I do try to think God would not have given me more then I can handle. I guess the hardest part is not openly discussing everything that has happened. Which is what I want to do so much.

[Andrew, Jr.]

rbentley1904,

I have been praying for you. I know that you are going thru a rough time, but it will get better. Have faith. Have hope. We are all here supporting you.

Peace & Love,
Andrew