What TO DO in a relationship.....

kittygrrl · 03-23-2013, 02:44 PM

keep your eyes on him/her

03-23-2013, 02:46 PM

Keep yer own metaphorical house clean first and foremost.

kittygrrl · 03-23-2013, 02:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Daktari

Keep yer own metaphorical house clean first and foremost.

Interesting..care to explain?

Ascot · 03-23-2013, 04:04 PM

Savor her.

TheMerryFairy · 03-23-2013, 04:07 PM

Remember to take time for each of you and to savor the time you get to spend together

ONLY · 03-23-2013, 04:48 PM

Put love notes on her pillow......

Sweet Bliss · 03-25-2013, 07:37 AM

Remember to say I love you BECAUSE and ALSO.... "I like you." followed by WHY you like them.....

03-25-2013, 10:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by kittygrrl

Interesting..care to explain?

I'm more interested to know your interpretation of it; everyone's is so different.

Miss Scarlett · 03-25-2013, 10:44 AM

Laugh and just have some crazy/silly fun together and often!!!

girl_dee · 04-04-2013, 05:06 AM

Imagine being in the other person's shoes.

Gráinne · 04-04-2013, 06:36 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daktari

I'm more interested to know your interpretation of it; everyone's is so different.

Here's mine:

*If you have areas where you are irresponsible, change this. I believe your irresponsibility affects your partner, too, even if you don't merge lives.

*Get real with, and deal with, addiction.

*If you have issues from the past, work on resolving these before you get too involved with someone new.

*Essentially, get yourself as emotionally, spiritually, and physically healthy as you can be, then stay that way. Don't look for a partner to "fix" you.

Was I even close?

midwest chick · 04-04-2013, 06:44 AM

play and romp like puppies and kittens

growling and romping without biting hard or taking it too seriously

deathbypoem · 09-02-2013, 11:12 AM

Cherish all of the memories, reminisce about them (with each other) often.

Sweet Bliss · 09-02-2013, 12:19 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Daktari

Keep yer own metaphorical house clean first and foremost.

Would like to read how you accomplish this order.

Chad · 09-02-2013, 05:56 PM

Hi,

I have not been that successful in relationships but I have a couple ideas that I believe in.

Be respectful toward your partner, be honest, be intimate, communicate, and have fun. There is something about laughing together that makes me feel connected to her.

Chad
My two cents

Blade · 09-23-2013, 05:03 PM

Be respectful, even when having a fuss

ONLY · 09-23-2013, 05:48 PM

WHEN SHE COMES TO VISIT......
Have flowers in the bedroom .......
Have some of her favorite foods and wine in the fridge, in the cupboard......
Have fresh sheets on the bed.......

When you kiss her, kiss her like she is meant to be kissed......
Love her as she is meant to be loved........
Remind her how beautiful she is, especially on those days that she is having a rough day....

I know I want to hold her all the time and not let her go but make sure you hold her first thing in the morning and last thing at night.....

Alright enough for now, *sigh* missing my girl

even more so now.....but hope to see her in a couple of weeks ....... I love you SS

xo

Bèsame* · 09-23-2013, 07:16 PM

RockOn · 09-23-2013, 09:34 PM

honest
honest
honest

And by the way, omitting things/parts is a form of deception. I call it exactly what it is ... which is lying.

Blade · 09-24-2013, 04:14 PM

Listen ie pay attention

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ONLY Senior Member How Do You Identify?: well my girl calls me honeybear, sugarbear, sexy beast, hot tamale..... Preferred Pronoun?: female pronouns Relationship Status: Married to my Rare Beauty with a Beautiful Soul.....SS Tournaments Won: 1 Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: eastern ontario, canada Posts: 2,783 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 975 Thanked 1,735 Times in 679 Posts Rep Power: 15139964	WHEN SHE COMES TO VISIT...... Have flowers in the bedroom ....... Have some of her favorite foods and wine in the fridge, in the cupboard...... Have fresh sheets on the bed....... When you kiss her, kiss her like she is meant to be kissed...... Love her as she is meant to be loved........ Remind her how beautiful she is, especially on those days that she is having a rough day.... I know I want to hold her all the time and not let her go but make sure you hold her first thing in the morning and last thing at night..... Alright enough for now, sigh missing my girl even more so now.....but hope to see her in a couple of weeks ....... I love you SS xo __________________ *"If you talk about it, it's a dream, if you envision it, it's possible, but if you schedule it, it's real. "*

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