40 Questions

little_ms_sunshyne · 05-12-2013, 09:16 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
Remove myself from emotionally unhealthy situations.

2. What's been on your mind most lately?
Am I living and enjoying life the way it should be...

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?
Happiness, Love, Health, Money, Fame

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?
To help my sister find peace and ease her worries about my nephew

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?
loved

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?
To find true happiness

7. In one sentence, who are you?
I am a sister, daughter, aunt, friend, teacher, student, perfectly imperfect, and simply me.

8. What do you want to be known for?
The teacher that made a student love to learn, the friend that made you smile when you needed it the most, and the person that loved out the ends of her fingertips.

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?
My sister

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?
Every year has brought so many changes for me. I hope just to be wiser, happier, and healthier

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?
Mi Abuelita

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?
Has a great sense of humor and gets mine, trustworthy, and honest (can they also like really ridiculous movies like Space Balls and Stepbrothers! Not important but would love that!)

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?
Recently, letting my walls down to get to know anyone romantically.

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?
to learn how to swim :/

15. What stands between you and what you want?
Fear of being hurt

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?
Go for a long drive or spend time with my very best friend. She makes me laugh until I cry. Then I cry and cry and cry! Usually it is needed.

17. When did you first realize that life is short?
The morning of June 8, 2010!

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?
Less work and more time with friends and family. Just time to do things that make me happy!

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?
The hurt my dad caused a long time ago.

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?
UHAUL!

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?
Hmmmmm...they think I am proper or shy. I have a sense of humor ya know and a few other things people miss

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?
My independence and humility.

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?
A little piece of wood my little brother gave me when he was 5. He said his teacher said, so long as a person you love carries it with them, they always remember you. Nine years later, it is in my wallet, and I have carried it with me every day since.

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?
The ability to trust without fear.

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?
Walking down the streets of Castro in San Francisco with my best friend and feeling like I belonged.

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?
Let my walls down...

27. If not now, then when?
When I am ready

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?
Every year since I started teaching, I have taught my students that kindness is the one thing that will make you the better person. For some of them, that idea has stuck

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?
I have cravings and desires that I never knew existed *shy smile*

30. What do you want to remember forever?
There are so many things! My Abuelita's words of wisdom, my mother's kindness, my nephew's smile...the feeling of being loved!

31. What could society do without?
LABELS!

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?
The core of who I am, even if we are always evolving.

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
I love just like you love, I feel just like you feel, I want so many of the things you want as well...We are not that different.

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?
Bent over backwards for someone that didn't deserve it.

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?
Coming out...I did it! Never thought I would.

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?
EEEks...not sure. I pass!

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?
Get serious will ya! There will be more time for that later!

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?
I am sorry I didn't show you how much I love you all. You were always loved.

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?
I really hope not.

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?
Is this how you want to live the rest of your life?

SoSousMe · 05-12-2013, 09:48 PM

1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago?
leave this town

2. What's been on your mind most lately?
the future

3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame?
love, happiness, health, money, fame

4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most?
her

5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life?
stressed

6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now?
My move to San Antonio to be with her

7. In one sentence, who are you?
a hard working, honest, faithful, provider

8. What do you want to be known for?
My work ethic

9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most?
I am moving 400 miles away, I will miss My hometown and the people in it, it's home

10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different?
I will hopefully be making more money and have a better life

11. Who makes you feel good about yourself?
My co-workers

12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend?
honesty, love, having My back

13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing?
moving from this town

14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid?
a ranch

15. What stands between you and what you want?
nothing anymore

16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy?
listen to music and drink a few beers on the porch

17. When did you first realize that life is short?
I thought I had before, when I lost friends along the way, but it wasn't until My 19 yr old nephew died in an accident, that I truly understood how precious life is

18. What do you need to spend more time doing?
at the moment, packing lol

19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront?
the fact that My father is a douche bag

20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with?
texting and driving or drinking and driving

21.What’s a common misconception people have about you?
That I love to fight

22.What’s something no one can take away from you?
My love for My son

23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day?
My phone

24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most?
family

25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most?
that's some X-rated shit right there lol

26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months?
I need to become accustomed to the city

27. If not now, then when?
it is happening now

28. What have you done that you are truly proud of?
raised an amazingly talented son, he's a professional photographer

29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself?
that I am willing to bend to make her happy

30. What do you want to remember forever?
the way My nephew made Me laugh

31. What could society do without?
bigotry and hatred

32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of?
My love for her

33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be?
tolerance and acceptance are key

34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done?
lol move from this town, 5 days and counting, and I'm outta here

35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older?
I realized My dad will never accept Me

36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while?
a relationship in which I raised 2 children together with My femme, we had an amazing family, it was so worth it

37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell?
don't be such a dick

38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be?
I love you, God please forgive Me for My wrong doings

39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done?
maybe

40. What questions do you often ask yourself?
What the fuck was I thinking?

05-12-2013, 09:48 PM	#2
SoSousMe Member How Do You Identify?: Gender Juxtaposed/Butch/Top/Daddy Preferred Pronoun?: Just a normal Guy Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jan 2013 Location: Texas Posts: 173 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 928 Thanked 691 Times in 141 Posts Rep Power: 9968157	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? leave this town 2. What's been on your mind most lately? the future 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? love, happiness, health, money, fame 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? her 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? stressed 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? My move to San Antonio to be with her 7. In one sentence, who are you? a hard working, honest, faithful, provider 8. What do you want to be known for? My work ethic 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? I am moving 400 miles away, I will miss My hometown and the people in it, it's home 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? I will hopefully be making more money and have a better life 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? My co-workers 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? honesty, love, having My back 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? moving from this town 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? a ranch 15. What stands between you and what you want? nothing anymore 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? listen to music and drink a few beers on the porch 17. When did you first realize that life is short? I thought I had before, when I lost friends along the way, but it wasn't until My 19 yr old nephew died in an accident, that I truly understood how precious life is 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? at the moment, packing lol 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? the fact that My father is a douche bag 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? texting and driving or drinking and driving 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? That I love to fight 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? My love for My son 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? My phone 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? family 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? that's some X-rated shit right there lol 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? I need to become accustomed to the city 27. If not now, then when? it is happening now 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? raised an amazingly talented son, he's a professional photographer 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? that I am willing to bend to make her happy 30. What do you want to remember forever? the way My nephew made Me laugh 31. What could society do without? bigotry and hatred 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? My love for her 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? tolerance and acceptance are key 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? lol move from this town, 5 days and counting, and I'm outta here 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? I realized My dad will never accept Me 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? a relationship in which I raised 2 children together with My femme, we had an amazing family, it was so worth it 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? don't be such a dick 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? I love you, God please forgive Me for My wrong doings 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? maybe 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? What the fuck was I thinking? __________________ Should You stumble... should You fall... Pick Yourself up by Your bootstraps and move along. If by chance a lady's hand appears before You, don't let Your pride hinder Your progress. Take the hand she offers, for her touch may lend the perfect amount of resistance needed to help steady You on Your feet. The honor in Dominance lies in the ability to recognize submission as a gift. I tend to delve deep within Myself.. sometimes hearing nothing more than the stir of My own soul. LQ

05-12-2013, 09:16 PM	#1
little_ms_sunshyne Senior Member How Do You Identify?: . Join Date: Oct 2010 Location: . Posts: 3,312 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 13,339 Thanked 12,241 Times in 2,541 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	1. What can you do today that you were not capable of a year ago? Remove myself from emotionally unhealthy situations. 2. What's been on your mind most lately? Am I living and enjoying life the way it should be... 3. In order of importance, how would you rank: happiness, money, love, health, fame? Happiness, Love, Health, Money, Fame 4. Right now, at this moment, what do you want most? To help my sister find peace and ease her worries about my nephew 5. What word best describes the way you’ve spent the last month of your life? loved 6. What is the #1 motivator in your life right now? To find true happiness 7. In one sentence, who are you? I am a sister, daughter, aunt, friend, teacher, student, perfectly imperfect, and simply me. 8. What do you want to be known for? The teacher that made a student love to learn, the friend that made you smile when you needed it the most, and the person that loved out the ends of her fingertips. 9. If you had to move 3000 miles away, what one thing would you miss most? My sister 10. In one year from today, how do you think your life will be different? Every year has brought so many changes for me. I hope just to be wiser, happier, and healthier 11. Who makes you feel good about yourself? Mi Abuelita 12. What are the top three qualities you look for in a friend? Has a great sense of humor and gets mine, trustworthy, and honest (can they also like really ridiculous movies like Space Balls and Stepbrothers! Not important but would love that!) 13.What has fear of failure stopped you from doing? Recently, letting my walls down to get to know anyone romantically. 14. What is something you have always wanted since you were a kid? to learn how to swim :/ 15. What stands between you and what you want? Fear of being hurt 16. What do you do when nothing else seems to make you happy? Go for a long drive or spend time with my very best friend. She makes me laugh until I cry. Then I cry and cry and cry! Usually it is needed. 17. When did you first realize that life is short? The morning of June 8, 2010! 18. What do you need to spend more time doing? Less work and more time with friends and family. Just time to do things that make me happy! 19. What issues do you continually refuse to confront? The hurt my dad caused a long time ago. 20. What’s something a lot of people do that you disagree with? UHAUL! 21.What’s a common misconception people have about you? Hmmmmm...they think I am proper or shy. I have a sense of humor ya know and a few other things people miss 22.What’s something no one can take away from you? My independence and humility. 23. What is something that you would hate to go without for a day? A little piece of wood my little brother gave me when he was 5. He said his teacher said, so long as a person you love carries it with them, they always remember you. Nine years later, it is in my wallet, and I have carried it with me every day since. 24. When you look into the past, what do you miss the most? The ability to trust without fear. 25. What memory from this past year makes you smile the most? Walking down the streets of Castro in San Francisco with my best friend and feeling like I belonged. 26. What’s the number one change you need to make in your life in the next twelve months? Let my walls down... 27. If not now, then when? When I am ready 28. What have you done that you are truly proud of? Every year since I started teaching, I have taught my students that kindness is the one thing that will make you the better person. For some of them, that idea has stuck 29. What’s something new you recently learned about yourself? I have cravings and desires that I never knew existed shy smile 30. What do you want to remember forever? There are so many things! My Abuelita's words of wisdom, my mother's kindness, my nephew's smile...the feeling of being loved! 31. What could society do without? LABELS! 32. What is one thing right now, that you are totally sure of? The core of who I am, even if we are always evolving. 33. If you had the opportunity to get a message across to a large group of people, what would your message be? I love just like you love, I feel just like you feel, I want so many of the things you want as well...We are not that different. 34. What’s something you said you’d never do, but have since done? Bent over backwards for someone that didn't deserve it. 35. What’s something you changed your mind about when you grew older? Coming out...I did it! Never thought I would. 36. What didn’t last forever, but was still worth your while? EEEks...not sure. I pass! 37. If you could go back in time and tell a younger version of yourself one thing, what would you tell? Get serious will ya! There will be more time for that later! 38. If you knew you were dying in 60 seconds, what would your last words be? I am sorry I didn't show you how much I love you all. You were always loved. 39. When it’s all said and done, will you have said more than you’ve done? I really hope not. 40. What questions do you often ask yourself? Is this how you want to live the rest of your life?