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Old 08-29-2013, 09:08 PM   #1
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I guess I never realized that the impression is that we are rare...kind of like unicorns. Heh.
*i * have seen over the years where it has been implied that being femme/butch stone makes one *more* femme/butch.

Not true.

i think many are just private about what goes on during sexytime.........


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I agree with dee..

Sometimes I think we.. generally... spend too much time being what is polite and lady like and yes, proper that we.. again generally hide the sexual side of ourselves.. too much. To protect the privacy of the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or
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I agree with dee..

Sometimes I think we.. generally... spend too much time being what is polite and lady like and yes, proper that we.. again generally hide the sexual side of ourselves.. too much. To protect the privacy of the bedroom, or kitchen floor, or
Or .......
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I get that, though with me it's not for lady like reasons.

I just though it was a given that when people find each other hot there are plenty of ways to have fun that do not trounce on each other's boundaries.
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I find this thread refreshing actually.
In my experience, I have found many butches do not enjoy this as part of the intamcy they are comfortable with.
I find it an honor if I am with a butch who will allow me to express love/lust/energy etc. this way.
It is also very erotic and exilerating to me to be able to explore my partner and see how excited I can get them . When I am not restricted in this area.

I can only speak for myself but I love to explore all areas of pleasure when it comes to pleasing a partner. If they allow that is.

But I have also realized that fewer butches seem to explore this option.
And again, in my own experience..It is usually the old school butches.

This does not apply to everyone I know.
I am one who usually does not speak out on intimate topics. But this one has crossedmy mind as well here and there.

Abother piece of thought;
For butches who have had issues allowing such because of masculine reasons..I have found that if this is done is such a way ..as to use it as an extension on a masculine level, then they also can enjoy it when normally it wouldn't be permitted.

I hope I wrote that correct...ha
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Abother piece of thought;
For butches who have had issues allowing such because of masculine reasons..I have found that if this is done is such a way ..as to use it as an extension on a masculine level, then they also can enjoy it when normally it wouldn't be permitted.

I hope I wrote that correct...ha
Yup you got it.

Speaking a little more plainly, one could say, treat your butch's clit like a cock and Bob's yer uncle! Or rather Bob is yer very happy Butchy!
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Yup you got it.

Speaking a little more plainly, one could say, treat your butch's clit like a cock and Bob's yer uncle! Or rather Bob is yer very happy Butchy!
I don't know about the Uncle part but you are spot on the other "bits".
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I've only been with one male id-ed butch but we only had sex a few times and it was so long ago that I can't really say how different it was from my other butch partners/lovers.

I must say I miss the smell and taste of a lover's cunt.
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I am still laughing over the idea that we are rare, like unicorns.

I don't think we are that rare. Are we?
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