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Old 08-30-2013, 03:50 PM   #1
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Oh it's been chatted about before Texan. but the threads are probably burried and even though the majority of butches I meet actually *have* vaginas/cunts (I hate the word pussy, sorry, like some people hate the word cunt) along with having cocks, and are into their cunts being fucked, and their clit-cocks being sucked off, on line the word cock seems to appear more. I have been with quite a few who although don't enjoy being penetrated, they sure as hell enjoy me sucking their "flesh" cock off.

Lots of them enjoy me using a dildo, frottage, sucking, fisting and genital massage, all of which I love doing. I'm service orientated so I'm happy to give whatever it is they want.

I've been happy with certain types of stones (if I couldn't suck someone's clit-cock or flesh cock off for the rest of my life I would be devastated, that's my line). and I've been happy with TGButches who aren't stone but enjoy the inside pathway of their cocks stroked off.

If you have a root around in the past threads, you might find a few of these. Or I could be thinking of the old site, of course. But I do recall having this convo quite a few times on the forums. I think because the default setting on line is "cock" (which could mean inner cock [that ridge that swells up on the ventral/stomach side of the vagina], clit or dildo) it gets confusing.

I'm sorry you are haing trouble finding a girl who likes to be active (in the traditional meaning of that word active/passive/versatile nomers at web dating sites like gaydar girls).

It might be something you could bring up in a way during flirting rather than having to find out the hard way. It's not easy and it can scare the horses but I find it saves me a LOT of grief in the bedroom if I find out before hand if they are going to find me "too submissve" at times. cause if I have to have the "what do you want me to do"/"do what you want, I'm here for you"/"no really, what do you want me to do."/"I want you to do what *you* want to do"/"I'm serious, what would you -"

conversation one more time I'll pull my own hair out. two people orientated the same way doesn't work. even if one is a top and one is a bottom.

but yes, there are oodles of girls out there very willing to slide a bullet vibe up your ass and suck you off while fisting you into next week *coy feminine eyelash flutter*

and be girly about it.

It's just finding them. Join a local group through here? try OKCupid? there are some great sex questions asked on that site that can help orientate you to the right gals.

My profile is up there, if you want some help on setting it up take a look - lezbosushi. I'm not sure how you feel about internet dating but I'm finding it's the only way to meet my community here.
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Old 08-30-2013, 11:01 PM   #2
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I"m a giver and receiver myself. I'm wanting to connect with others that are like myself. It kinda feels taboo to talk about and discuss openly and it seems for almost 50 yrs of living as a lesbian butch woman, that it never is talked about this way. I don't care for calling my own pussy a cock or a cunt, but to each their own. I have no issue with anyone that does. I just want to keep the discussion going in a comfortable direction for everyone that wishes to keep it going. Thanks for all your replies and reps. I appreciate them very much.
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In most any way hy or she would like me to. I don't have any problems doing what makes them and myself happy. It's rare for a butch to be into and FTM however when it happens, its magical.

And yes, I am posting we don't need a bajillon threads all separated by ID.
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In most any way hy or she would like me to. I don't have any problems doing what makes them and myself happy. It's rare for a butch to be into and FTM however when it happens, its magical.

And yes, I am posting we don't need a bajillon threads all separated by ID.
Welcome to the discussion badboi. No one is excluded here at all. I started this thread to find like minded femmes and am welcoming anyone to join in !! Thanks for your openness.
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I"m a giver and receiver myself. I'm wanting to connect with others that are like myself. It kinda feels taboo to talk about and discuss openly and it seems for almost 50 yrs of living as a lesbian butch woman, that it never is talked about this way. I don't care for calling my own pussy a cock or a cunt, but to each their own. I have no issue with anyone that does. I just want to keep the discussion going in a comfortable direction for everyone that wishes to keep it going. Thanks for all your replies and reps. I appreciate them very much.
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Darlin, that's awful to hear. I know that different places have different sub cultures and that makes communication around those things very very different than other areas on the planet. I'm sorry where you've been has been that way

I do send you good news that it's not like that all over the world though. In many places it's perfectly normal for a butch to talk about their female genitalia (inset word of preference here) in terms of sex with friends rather openly. At least they do in my subsets of friends

I promise you there are lots of butches out there who talk about it too.

Unless, you know, you just started this to meet femmes...



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NO, it wasn't started just to meet femmes. Its the name in the title but it was intended to be able to connect with femmes and others to discuss the topic and make connections in that way . I welcome anyone of any ID to come talk about it here in whatever name they wanna call it. Just for me it was a connection to see what other lesbians felt about butch pussy/cunt/cock/however you choose to call it, and to talk freely with others that possibly have been where I've been. Anywho, thanks for posting.
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I haven't been with many people, since I transitioned, but...... I'm certainly willing to please my lover any way that we both find mutually enjoyable. I've definitely had oral sex with a woman before my transition, and enjoyed it. I like pleasing my partners, and i doubt that that has changed.
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"Sometimes She Lets Me" by Alison L. Smith And I always love it when they let me.
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"Sometimes She Lets Me" by Alison L. Smith And I always love it when they let me.
Wow. I might let you. When you put it like that.

My pick-up line used to be, "Do you want to date me?" "I'll let ya."
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NO, it wasn't started just to meet femmes. Its the name in the title but it was intended to be able to connect with femmes and others to discuss the topic and make connections in that way . I welcome anyone of any ID to come talk about it here in whatever name they wanna call it. Just for me it was a connection to see what other lesbians felt about butch pussy/cunt/cock/however you choose to call it, and to talk freely with others that possibly have been where I've been. Anywho, thanks for posting.
I'm teasing, Texan, I'm teasing...
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It's ok, really. I was just answering your post.
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LMAO.. I just came across this thread and wailing over here. I understand ya Tru.. I really do. Im one of you. Its like it doesnt matter when it comes to the bedroom with these two type people. When it comes to love making with one of our kind.. you cant tell where the butch or femme begins or ends with either of us.
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