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| I am FEMME and I have lots of friends who I talk to regularly. |
   
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23 | 15.23% |
| I am FEMME and I have a few close friends. |
  
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32 | 21.19% |
| I am FEMME and I have a lot of friends but prefer to connect online or through text. |
  
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7 | 4.64% |
| I am FEMME and I have 1 or 2 close friends. We speak often. |
  
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17 | 11.26% |
| I am FEMME and I don't have many "close" friends but connect with people online regularly. |
  
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8 | 5.30% |
| I am FEMME and have been close friends with several people for over 10 years. |
  
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33 | 21.85% |
| I am FEMME and I HATE to talk on the phone. |
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26 | 17.22% |
| I am FEMME and I often talk on the phone. |
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13 | 8.61% |
| I am BUTCH and I have lots of friends who I talk to regularly. |
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7 | 4.64% |
| I am BUTCH and I have a few close friends. |
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21 | 13.91% |
| I am BUTCH and I have a lot of friends but prefer to connect online or through text. |
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1 | 0.66% |
| I am BUTCH and I have 1 or 2 close friends. We speak often. |
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9 | 5.96% |
| I am BUTCH and I don't have many "close" friends but connect with people online regularly. |
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2 | 1.32% |
| I am BUTCH and have been close friends with several people for over 10 years. |
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18 | 11.92% |
| I am BUTCH and I HATE to talk on the phone. |
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15 | 9.93% |
| I am BUTCH and I often talk on the phone. |
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6 | 3.97% |
| I am a Transperson and I have lots of friends who I talk to regularly. |
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6 | 3.97% |
| I am a Transperson and I have a few close friends. |
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13 | 8.61% |
| I am a Transperson and I have a lot of friends but prefer to connect online or through text. |
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3 | 1.99% |
| I am a Transperson and I have 1 or 2 close friends. We speak often. |
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3 | 1.99% |
| I am a Transperson and I don't have many "close" friends but connect with people online regularly. |
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3 | 1.99% |
| I am a Transperson and have been close friends with several people for over 10 years. |
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8 | 5.30% |
| I am a Transperson and I HATE to talk on the phone. |
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8 | 5.30% |
| I am a Transperson and I often talk on the phone. |
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6 | 3.97% |
| I think friendships are overrated. |
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3 | 1.99% |
| I think that all genders create friendships in basically the same ways. |
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33 | 21.85% |
| I think that people who have no friends are "unhealthy" in some way. |
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18 | 11.92% |
| I think people who have lots of friends are "unhealthy" in some way. |
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5 | 3.31% |
| I think it is healthy to build friendships from online interactions. |
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35 | 23.18% |
| I think it is unhealthy to build friendships from online interactions. |
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2 | 1.32% |
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Interesting based on this example the OP gave, we heard from butches as well. I wonder why they felt okay to respond? - This question asked based on your reaction to the example.
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I responded as I read the example given by the OP as just that an example and how it may have related to her, I then looked at how I would relate to the actual question and adjusted it to fit my status. I guess I assumed everyone would do the same, but then I out of everyone should know, never assume because always someone will prove you wrong.
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And with that said... Back to the OP question. I think this has the opportunity to be a really healthy dialogue. I am interested in learning more about the relationships we have with others and how others navigate them. I loved reading Dreamer's words to this question. I already knew the reasoning behind much of it, but it was nice to see it here. I think whenever we are given the opportunity to express ourselves in an open forum and share our experiences, we learn about one another. We are talking about friendships and in the process... Who knows, a few new friendships might evolve. Love this topic!!!
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