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Snowy, I knew that before you posted it. I am in a playful mood tonight.
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I don't mean to be a cunt, or be mean, I am only trying to explain to you that when the women.femmes.feminine people of our community start exposing intimate things such as what makes *THEM* feel sexy and someone sexualizes it, it's ickie. Look around your world, women get sexualized enough without consent. I didn't share my intimate posting of a sundress on my skin after bed to take a drive for your enjoyment, I did it because I thought about it, for a long time, I examined deep within myself, asked myself what *MAKES ME* feel sexy. It was like excavating, it always is for me as a Femme to do so cause in the back of my head I am wondering, who's gonna turn this into more than it is. That's all I was trying to make you understand.
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Self care is high on my list, like most of you have posted. Regardless of what is done, taking the time to put into myself continues all the good juju and happy happy joy joy mentality. Happiness flows downhill, from the head to the toes.
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A sexy butch reaching over to push a strand of hair back from my face.
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All things lacy. Even more so with bows
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This is a thread for femmes, in the femme zone and it's reasonable to request that it be free of anything that may feel like leering or that our responses are somehow designed to turn someone else on. To me, the thread is just for us and we don't always get to allow ourselves to be sexy or show that we feel sexy because someone can and often will, turn that against us in a 'we said that just for them' kind of way. It's unsettling. There's a certain vulnerability when you reveal someone personal to oneself and to have someone....even someone whose intention was not unkind....come in and say that what some of what we said turned them on, that feels unfair to me. As Snowy said, we get this kind of behavior in the world on a regular basis. That doesn't make it right or okay here. Brock, thank you for apologizing. We all speak before thinking at one time or another. It happens. How one handles it afterwards shows a lot about that person and their intentions and I don't think the intention was malicious. Just that what happened was inconsiderate. As for your second question which I underlined, this question makes me feel uneasy because it's very close to 'she was wearing a short skirt and deserved it' in my head. I take ownership of that leap but I still feel that it's not unreasonable to expect to post in this thread, in this particular forum, without judgement or someone taking ownership of what is not theirs to take. |
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A reassuring hand in the small of my back guiding me through a room or a crowd.
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Ay que pelao el puro pelao liking the post about the lace bra…..lol
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Touching a butch's buzz cut
Making my eyes up in a way that would make any drag queen proud Wearing my lucky leopard print bra All my tops that show a little cleavage All my tops that show cleavage and maybe a hint of the leopard print bra Music with a good beat or heavy duty congas Having my 'femmeness' appreciated, i.e., complimented on a dress Getting cruised Being called 'mami' K.D. Lang's voice (OK, anything about K.D. Lang….) FLIRTING! When a butch stares at your lips for a second before kissing you Last edited by lamuymuyfem; 01-22-2014 at 12:34 AM. Reason: spacing |
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She was trying to change a tire at the time so the pre-kiss look was definitely the sexiest thing going on…….lol
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My butch <3 Makes me feel so many amazing things. Sexy is definitely near the top of the list.
It's important for me to be with someone who makes me feel sexy. I never would have thought this, but after being with someone who didn't make me feel that way, I am highly appreciative of someone who does. Thank you xo |
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may sound strange but.....
wearing a men's button down dress shirt.. (and just the shirt).....with hys scent lingering on it....and then mingling with my own... in my experience..... they tend to like it a lot too..... ![]()
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When I am feeling nervous about a meeting if I, under my suit, wear truly decadent well fitting under bits it replaces the nervous with sexy
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. "I need no warrant for being, and no word of sanction upon my being. I am the warrant and the sanction. " Ayn Rand, Anthem "So you'll die happily for your sins. You'd rather die in guilt then live in love?" Timothy Leary Last edited by Venus007; 02-07-2014 at 07:01 PM. Reason: typo |
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Coming home from work and immediately diving into an entertaining story about my day. Overwhelmed by my adorableness (what? I can be adorable), hy pushes me up against the wall and kisses me hard. Okay, okay, hy was probably just trying to shut me up. But still...very sexy.
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Dance classes make a big difference for me. I think it's partly that they help me let go of a lot of stress, plus endorphins, but I also think that it helps a lot in reconnecting me with my body. After a dance class I feel whole, engaged, and like my whole body is alive. I actually feel alive instead of just knowing it.
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Ironically the same thing that made me feel ugly in the past: swimming (and wearing a bikini). Once I'm in the pool I feel so light and smooth and while gliding through the water I'm aware of my whole body.
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Exercise and enough sleep.
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