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			My butch <3 Makes me feel so many amazing things. Sexy is definitely near the top of the list. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	It's important for me to be with someone who makes me feel sexy. I never would have thought this, but after being with someone who didn't make me feel that way, I am highly appreciative of someone who does. Thank you xo  | 
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			That look.  You know the look.  It can be a stranger that watches from afar, or a lover that gazes at you during dinner.  You can see the lust in their eyes, that need to lay their hands on you.  This is what makes me feel sexy.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			If that's the case, I think I've made hundreds of women (and men) feel sexy...sometimes two at a time ... who knew that a herding impulse could be sexy lol
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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 Lol. I'm sure you have, Collette. But seriously, it's about keeping the physical connection while making your way through a crowd. The raw physical need of your butch to keep some thread of connection. VERY sexy!  
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			Competency. Mastering a sport or acitivity that was at the start physically or mentally challenging. I've been learning chess for the past year and if the game is well-matched and well played I can feel very hot to trot! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Having and maintaining a strong, healthy body to the best of my ability. Feeding my brain and spiritual side with good books, art and music. Sailing. The physical demands, sunshine, wind, current, and blue sky all combine to an amazing endorphine rush. (I'll show you a 3 hour tour....) ![]() It's interesting to me what makes me feel sexy has nothing to do with having any input or even interaction with another. I guess it really is true that "self-love is never so great a sin as self-neglect." Katniss~~  | 
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			Dancing, the girating, vibrating, sweat, sex, salt, scents that mix during the right song in a smoke, drink filled dance floor right after morning bids a farewell to night...::::: 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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	"If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden ![]() ![]()  | 
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			There are lots of things that make me feel sexy that both are internal that I do just for me, but also absolutely others have the power to give me a jolt of sexy as well.  I don't think that's a bad thing unless you rely soley on others to MAKE you feel sexy. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
		
		
		
		
	Some things others do that can make me feel sexy: -give me *THAT* submissive look -a hand on the small of my back, as well -come up to me out of nowhere and give me a passionate kiss -cook a nice meal for me -give me a bath  | 
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			may sound strange but..... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			wearing a men's button down dress shirt.. (and just the shirt).....with hys scent lingering on it....and then mingling with my own... in my experience..... they tend to like it a lot too.....  
		
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			Wearing my corset, with thigh high black hose, my (almost knee high) black leather boots, lace undies under my long dark purple silk robe... and the mental space this puts me in.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Mostly this "space" is very rare for me to feel or show...so when I do, I like to make it a very special treat and I relish in the experience of how silk and corset makes me FEEL ... 
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			What makes me feel sexy? Lots of things... but for this post I will say: 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Extra eye makeup, not my usual light routine but when I take time to do pussycat eyeliner, etc. for an evening look. My best perfume. A push up bra, not just the look of it but the feeling of it snugly holding my breasts.... Mastering a new skill, probably because it instills confidence and confidence seems to make my sense of sexy rise. Great topic! 
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			When I am feeling nervous about a meeting if I, under my suit, wear truly decadent well fitting under bits it replaces the nervous with sexy
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Coming home from work and immediately diving into an entertaining story about my day.  Overwhelmed by my adorableness (what? I can be adorable), hy pushes me up against the wall and kisses me hard.  Okay, okay, hy was probably just trying to shut me up.  But still...very sexy.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Dance classes make a big difference for me.  I think it's partly that they help me let go of a lot of stress, plus endorphins, but I also think that it helps a lot in reconnecting me with my body.  After a dance class I feel whole, engaged, and like my whole body is alive.  I actually feel alive instead of just knowing it.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Ironically the same thing that made me feel ugly in the past: swimming (and wearing a bikini). Once I'm in the pool I feel so light and smooth and while gliding through the water I'm aware of my whole body.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			![]() Oh and skirts with over knee socks as well! 
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			Exercise and enough sleep.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			i feel the most sexy when I am doing something considered masculine...chopping wood, working outside, fixing something (uber simple) on my truck. Just a touch of dirt and sweat...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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	-Smooth legs with a skirt and high quality heels to show them off -New makeup, and the good stuff, too! Stila mascara does wonders! -Freshly cut and straightened hair (after growing up with ringlets all of my life, being introduced to my first flat iron was magical! Being able to easily run my own fingers through my hair is such a luxury) -Hearing the clinking sound of my own jewelry as I move -Really nice and, er, supportive undergarments... -Putting my giant sunglasses on, windows down in my Jeep, feeling the wind in my hair, and catching a glimpse of myself in the rear view mirror and truthfully liking what I see. -Crossing my legs in a skirt. Sometimes it's the simple things. -Going to an art gallery/theatre/highbrow university event and feeling like I both look the part and belong there. Growing up working class, this is something that is important to me and boosts my self-image in a really powerful way. It's hard to explain to those who haven't been there, but it's huge. -Giving myself the perfect French manicure. What a feat! :-p Things they can do for me: -Hand on the small of my back or on my thigh while driving -Gently moving my hair to the side before kissing my neck -Nuzzling my neck to better enjoy my perfume -Small, tasteful public displays of affection (back rub, quick peck, holding out my coat [yes, this counts], etc.). I think it's important to acknowledge your partner on a regular basis when appropriate and safe to do so. -Spontaneous romantic gestures "just because." -Cupping my face before/during a slow kiss. So sexy. -The infamous butch smirk (or butch blush, depending on said butch). And to know that I caused that. Or the amused/devilish butch eyebrow-cocking. GAWD. How do you do that? -Burying their face in my---WHAT? :-p  | 
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