What do YOU need to feel loved?

Blaze · 04-23-2010, 10:47 PM

What do You need to feel loved?

Truly. You shouldn't need anything out of the ordinary to feel loved.
Like many said, if you can look into the mirror and love yourself, that is the start to the greatest love. If your don't feel good about yourself, then it is impossible to love others. You will pretend and eventually it will show/
If one truly needs to the ACT of feeling loved by stimulation of another, than that what it is, just an ACT.
You can Want... But do you truly Need?
You can Give... But do you Truly Mean?
I guess my answer is I love waking up every morning.
I love my first cup of coffee.
I love showering and getting ready for work.
I love working and my friend/co-workers.
I love my drive home from work.
I love walking into the door and being greeted by all my four legged family.
I love Being hugged and kissed by my girl when I come home.
I love my quiet time, I love my family time. I love all that Life has to Offer.
That about sums it up for what it takes to make me feel loved....
And this is just my opinion of what I think...

TROOPER · 04-24-2010, 08:45 AM

What Do You NEED to Feel Loved?

TRUST, COMMUNICATION, and RESPECT.

I think this is a good start!

If a person does not CARE enough about you and/or the relationship to GIVE you this...

Why bother?

Blaze · 04-24-2010, 11:35 AM

I was thinking about this again...
Personally, I don't need validation to feel love.
Now don't get me wrong. Being validated is a very nice thing. But it's not something I depend on hearing or receiving.
I am happy with myself. I am content and very happy with my girl. We do little things for each other, we do big things for each other. It's a balance.
It's not a 50/50 expectation. Some days we give 20/80 or visa~versa. At the end of the day, it's just simple love.
When you have been together as long as we have. I would say validation is the sparkle in the eye when we wake up together, or the excitement of a little get away....

04-23-2010, 10:47 PM	#1
Blaze Senior Member How Do You Identify?: With my drivers Lic. Preferred Pronoun?: Gentleman.. Depends on the Situation. Relationship Status: Last Rodeo, what a ride, many sunrises & sunsets to be had... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: where a realtor had me sign the dotted line Posts: 1,901 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,466 Thanked 5,456 Times in 1,450 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	What do You need to feel loved? Truly. You shouldn't need anything out of the ordinary to feel loved. Like many said, if you can look into the mirror and love yourself, that is the start to the greatest love. If your don't feel good about yourself, then it is impossible to love others. You will pretend and eventually it will show/ If one truly needs to the ACT of feeling loved by stimulation of another, than that what it is, just an ACT. You can Want... But do you truly Need? You can Give... But do you Truly Mean? I guess my answer is I love waking up every morning. I love my first cup of coffee. I love showering and getting ready for work. I love working and my friend/co-workers. I love my drive home from work. I love walking into the door and being greeted by all my four legged family. I love Being hugged and kissed by my girl when I come home. I love my quiet time, I love my family time. I love all that Life has to Offer. That about sums it up for what it takes to make me feel loved.... And this is just my opinion of what I think...

04-24-2010, 08:45 AM	#2
TROOPER Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Permanently Banned 09/11/2010 Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chicago Posts: 304 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 506 Thanked 191 Times in 138 Posts Rep Power: 0	What Do You NEED to Feel Loved? TRUST, COMMUNICATION, and RESPECT. I think this is a good start! If a person does not CARE enough about you and/or the relationship to GIVE you this... Why bother?

04-24-2010, 11:35 AM	#3
Blaze Senior Member How Do You Identify?: With my drivers Lic. Preferred Pronoun?: Gentleman.. Depends on the Situation. Relationship Status: Last Rodeo, what a ride, many sunrises & sunsets to be had... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: where a realtor had me sign the dotted line Posts: 1,901 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,466 Thanked 5,456 Times in 1,450 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	I was thinking about this again... Personally, I don't need validation to feel love. Now don't get me wrong. Being validated is a very nice thing. But it's not something I depend on hearing or receiving. I am happy with myself. I am content and very happy with my girl. We do little things for each other, we do big things for each other. It's a balance. It's not a 50/50 expectation. Some days we give 20/80 or visa~versa. At the end of the day, it's just simple love. When you have been together as long as we have. I would say validation is the sparkle in the eye when we wake up together, or the excitement of a little get away....