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			Judgmental people  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			People that have that better than tho attitude As for possibly partners always answering I don't know when asked what they want to do or where they want to go. I mean some times it's understandable nut are you really that boring that you never know? People that are always PC Finally people that assume others ate ignorant because the person does not spell every word correctly after all this is not a class room. 
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			Are you in or are you out? Make up your mind! 
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			People that are self-centered and believe the world revolves around them.  People that make other's struggles their 'own'.  People that lie.  People that think money makes the world go round.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Anyone who feels the need to be loud and obnoxious out in public! Being loud and drawing attention is the main thing that'll send me running for the hill!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			What do you mean?(not just a bieber song)..people who do not know how to make up their mind.First you wanna go,then you wanna stay..then you want to go left,then you want to go right(damn,it is that JB song)..I hate that! drives me crazy!!..how about this one,how about I leave your indecisive a** by the roadside. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	That'll work for me.  
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			A loud drunk obnoxious woman!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Inflexible traditionalism. Doing things by the rules for the sake of the rules. Massive turn off.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Basically, people who lack critical thinking skills and depend on rules of thumb instead. There are exceptions to everything. What are they? Why? Rigidity. I do like decisiveness, but people who make up their mind very quickly, without clear reasoning scare me. People who make decisions quickly, often change them very quickly without clear reasoning too. Without notice. Capriciousness. Believing absolutely in one thing one day, and emphatically going on about it, then when their emotions change, changing direction and dismissing their past opinion as just something they were going on about. I can't trust their enthusiasm or their will. It takes a long time for me to make a decision about bigger issues. But I won't go back and forth on something. I'll be very clear I haven't made my mind up, and it will be some time before I do. I want a lot more information before I: buy a flat, purchase a car, go on a six week holiday, get a pet, or get involved in a relationship with someone. So when I watch people rushing headlong into something, I watch just how long they stick with that decision before they say "meh, that wasn't for me." And walk away from it. Big fat clue that if they do that with other things, they will do that with me. I'd rather someone took their time and didn't make promises before they knew for certain what they wanted long term, not what they want now now now. Last edited by imperfect_cupcake; 11-22-2015 at 09:09 PM.  | 
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			Are you running into shouty drunk people a lot, homoe?
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Speaking of pub, a turn off for me is the smell of beer on the breath, yuck
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			elusiveness - I value someone who is direct about their intentions at all times 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Hygiene, especially not washing your hands after you go to the bathroom,  
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Yes , hygiene & smokers are a huge turn off for me.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Among a few others. 
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			lack of manners,my Dad always said manners are free use them,and this includes how you speak and relate to others around you,if you think a homeless person is less than you,we just won't get on. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			being secretive,someone who getting information out of is like pulling teeth,I don't want to know your bank details but I think communicating is very important,and I mean a dialogue. This sounds judgemental,but believing Fox news is actually news,I just know I will drive you nuts. 
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			A person insists they never lie, but then you catch them in several 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			A person who insists they are always right 
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			An instant turn off/on for me is someone's voice 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			You can look like Selma Hayek (my lifelong lust) or Monica Bellucci, Big Boo or even like Jensen Ackles (my man lust) but you sound like a squeaky toy or Nanny Fine, I just can't. Can't. Conversely, you're not the least bit "conventionally attractive" but you have a voice like roughened velvet or smooth like glass? I'm so there. That's like major for me. The other big one is if we just don't click intellectually or in our humor. Those are deal breakers. I value cleverness above almost everything else. 
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			Dirty nails gross me out. I even notice if someone on a TV show has dirty nails. 
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			No matter how good someone looks, if they belittle someone else FOR NO REASON, it's a done deal. Not only will you be unattractive, I will also instantly dislike you as a person...and trip you when you walk by....just kidding. 😃
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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