Single FTM's & Femme's - Page 9

morningstar55 · 04-25-2010, 06:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

A Hawaiian blizzard would be lovely, thank you.

...OMG!! that one is my most favorite

.....lol that or banana split one.. lol.

Soft*Silver · 04-25-2010, 09:27 PM

Breaden hun, no one has said hello back to you so let me...hiya baby! Its so nice you come in to say hello to us in here.

Delish..I agree with you. Not all of us are crazy people. Some of us can be trusted. I also know that sometimes we end up in bad relationships even tho both people are individually good people. For some reason, the mix of the two makes a horrible bad relationship.

So...in talking about mad hatter relationships...after leaving one, didnt the lines blur and reality get distorted? How do we let that happen? Why didnt we nip it in the bud before it got so HUGE and damaging?

Leigh · 04-25-2010, 11:51 PM

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Originally Posted by softness

Breaden hun, no one has said hello back to you so let me...hiya baby! Its so nice you come in to say hello to us in here.

Yeah, I've noticed that for the last two times I've said hi to the thread not one person (until you) has said hi to Me .......... am I chopped liver? whats up with that?

Gemme · 04-26-2010, 01:43 AM

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Originally Posted by ~Bo

........

What? You asked what did I want and I told you. Don't ask if you aren't prepared to hear the answer. Now, chop chop....I'm still waiting on that yummy goodness.

morningstar55 · 04-26-2010, 04:30 AM

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Originally Posted by Braedon

Yeah, I've noticed that for the last two times I've said hi to the thread not one person (until you) has said hi to Me .......... am I chopped liver? whats up with that?

mawning to all the singles here........
sorry Braedon....... that i missed u .. good morning...
hope you all have a great day...

Delish · 04-26-2010, 11:48 AM

[QUOTE=softness;92243][I][COLOR="DarkRed"]Breaden hun, no one has said hello back to you so let me...hiya baby! Its so nice you come in to say hello to us in here.

Delish..I agree with you. Not all of us are crazy people. Some of us can be trusted. I also know that sometimes we end up in bad relationships even tho both people are individually good people. For some reason, the mix of the two makes a horrible bad relationship.

I am a realistic person. I personally don't get involved in a LD relationship or play online games. If you are over 3 hrs away it's hard to get to each other HELLO? Yes I flirt but I am single but yet not trying to lead people on. I LOVE dating! I love the old school ways when people got to know each other before they jumped into having that "relationship" status or moving in with each other. What happened to those days??? And why doesn't anyone like that live around me lol

Soft*Silver · 04-26-2010, 01:02 PM

I too wonder why people dont date anymore! As soon as you go out, wham, they want to plant their shoes under the bed and their gutchies in a drawer. No thanks. At 53, I am D.O.N.E. with move ins. No one is going to live with me again. And personally, I would prefer a long distance dating than someone where I live. And yes, I can date long distance. I enjoy a car ride, have traveled by plane and train and bus (never again by bus!), as well as my dates have to come to see me. I dont want someone under foot all the time. I dont need someone in my bed, let alone on my couch 24/7. I have become a very independent woman these past two years. Now, if someone locally could keep my boundaries I set, then yeah, I would date them too, but my experience has been that once you date someone locally and go out more than 5 times together, everyone locally considers you off limits to anyone else. Now how can I date if everyone considers me "taken"?

I wonder if anyone else feels this way about dating long distance? I know I have had some people negate my long distance relationships as though they arent REAL relationships. Shame on them for being so narcissistic that only their way is the right way. I just shake my head and consider the source. Not everyone has the same needs. Not everyone has the same needs in relationships. Let alone in dating.

Some might argue its an expensive date if you have to buy a ticket and some might say there would be assumed sexual privelages right off the bat. I counter that 10 local dates could cost the same amount as a ticket. And no, there is no assumed sexual privelages! Yikes! Why not pass the plate around and take up a donation to just buy sex! Why bother with dating at all!!!!

~Bo · 04-26-2010, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

What? You asked what did I want and I told you. Don't ask if you aren't prepared to hear the answer. Now, chop chop....I'm still waiting on that yummy goodness.

I asked what you want. I never said I'd fetch it for ya.

Gemme · 04-27-2010, 01:30 AM

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Originally Posted by ~Bo

I asked what you want. I never said I'd fetch it for ya.

You are a brat and a tease, but mostly a brat.

~Bo · 04-27-2010, 03:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Gemme

You are a brat and a tease, but mostly a brat.

Am not!!!!

morningstar55 · 04-27-2010, 07:41 AM

good morning singles.......

Soft*Silver · 04-27-2010, 08:18 AM

morning, Ms MorningStar...hope you have a glorious day driving out in the Spring today...

Gemme · 04-27-2010, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by ~Bo

Am not!!!!

Soft*Silver · 04-27-2010, 12:43 PM

talking to the silver hairs....how is dating different for you now, as opposed to your younger years? And talking to the younger ones...how do you think dating is different for you now than it was for someone a decade or more ago?

Liam · 04-27-2010, 01:21 PM

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Originally Posted by softness

talking to the silver hairs....how is dating different for you now, as opposed to your younger years? And talking to the younger ones...how do you think dating is different for you now than it was for someone a decade or more ago?

During my younger years, there were actually local women I could date. After living here for three years, I would have to say there aren't any local women I would date.

Jesse · 07-28-2010, 10:33 AM

:Walks in and finds a comfy chair to relax in:

Hmmmm...seems this thread needs a good BUMP!

morningstar55 · 07-28-2010, 10:43 AM

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Originally Posted by Tranzman

:Walks in and finds a comfy chair to relax in:

Hmmmm...seems this thread needs a good BUMP!

........... hello .......Tranzman Sir

Jesse · 07-28-2010, 10:55 AM

Hello Morningstar

morningstar55 · 07-28-2010, 11:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Tranzman

Hello Morningstar

.jest trying to help with some of your bumping here.... hehe

dark_crystal · 07-28-2010, 11:47 AM

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Originally Posted by softness

soon as you go out, wham, they want to plant their shoes under the bed and their gutchies in a drawer.

what are gutchies?

04-25-2010, 09:27 PM	#162
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,908 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	Breaden hun, no one has said hello back to you so let me...hiya baby! Its so nice you come in to say hello to us in here. Delish..I agree with you. Not all of us are crazy people. Some of us can be trusted. I also know that sometimes we end up in bad relationships even tho both people are individually good people. For some reason, the mix of the two makes a horrible bad relationship. So...in talking about mad hatter relationships...after leaving one, didnt the lines blur and reality get distorted? How do we let that happen? Why didnt we nip it in the bud before it got so HUGE and damaging? __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

04-26-2010, 01:02 PM	#167
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,908 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	I too wonder why people dont date anymore! As soon as you go out, wham, they want to plant their shoes under the bed and their gutchies in a drawer. No thanks. At 53, I am D.O.N.E. with move ins. No one is going to live with me again. And personally, I would prefer a long distance dating than someone where I live. And yes, I can date long distance. I enjoy a car ride, have traveled by plane and train and bus (never again by bus!), as well as my dates have to come to see me. I dont want someone under foot all the time. I dont need someone in my bed, let alone on my couch 24/7. I have become a very independent woman these past two years. Now, if someone locally could keep my boundaries I set, then yeah, I would date them too, but my experience has been that once you date someone locally and go out more than 5 times together, everyone locally considers you off limits to anyone else. Now how can I date if everyone considers me "taken"? I wonder if anyone else feels this way about dating long distance? I know I have had some people negate my long distance relationships as though they arent REAL relationships. Shame on them for being so narcissistic that only their way is the right way. I just shake my head and consider the source. Not everyone has the same needs. Not everyone has the same needs in relationships. Let alone in dating. Some might argue its an expensive date if you have to buy a ticket and some might say there would be assumed sexual privelages right off the bat. I counter that 10 local dates could cost the same amount as a ticket. And no, there is no assumed sexual privelages! Yikes! Why not pass the plate around and take up a donation to just buy sex! Why bother with dating at all!!!! __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

04-27-2010, 07:41 AM	#171
morningstar55 Senior Member How Do You Identify?: femme,she Preferred Pronoun?: she,her, Relationship Status: very single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: western NY Posts: 3,809 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,280 Thanked 4,240 Times in 1,845 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	good morning singles....... __________________ -------------------------------------------- life is to short to wake up in the morning with regrets so love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who dont, and believe that everything happens for a reason. If you get a chance take it... if it changes your life let it.

04-27-2010, 08:18 AM	#172
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,908 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	morning, Ms MorningStar...hope you have a glorious day driving out in the Spring today... __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

04-27-2010, 12:43 PM	#174
SoftSilver Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: rose cottage Posts: 5,592 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 8,948 Thanked 15,908 Times in 4,062 Posts Rep Power*: 21474857	talking to the silver hairs....how is dating different for you now, as opposed to your younger years? And talking to the younger ones...how do you think dating is different for you now than it was for someone a decade or more ago? __________________ Pole bachit, a lis chuye. The field sees, the forest hears

04-26-2010, 11:48 AM	#166
Delish Member How Do You Identify?: Queen of our castle Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: She put a ring on it and the date is set :) Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Missouri...in her arms :) Posts: 1,089 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,279 Thanked 834 Times in 427 Posts Rep Power: 3888561	[QUOTE=softness;92243][I][COLOR="DarkRed"]Breaden hun, no one has said hello back to you so let me...hiya baby! Its so nice you come in to say hello to us in here. Delish..I agree with you. Not all of us are crazy people. Some of us can be trusted. I also know that sometimes we end up in bad relationships even tho both people are individually good people. For some reason, the mix of the two makes a horrible bad relationship. I am a realistic person. I personally don't get involved in a LD relationship or play online games. If you are over 3 hrs away it's hard to get to each other HELLO? Yes I flirt but I am single but yet not trying to lead people on. I LOVE dating! I love the old school ways when people got to know each other before they jumped into having that "relationship" status or moving in with each other. What happened to those days??? And why doesn't anyone like that live around me lol

07-28-2010, 10:33 AM	#176
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07-28-2010, 10:55 AM	#178
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,782 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Hello Morningstar __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”