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09-29-2014, 08:26 PM
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I generally have a high sex drive when partnered. Lesbian bed death only happened once that I know of. After some years, I found her ways becoming unattractive. When that happened, I no longer wanted to be sexual with her. Felt so guilty and bad about these confusing feelings for someone I had cared for at one time. Tried to hide it, which was wrong, by making myself once in a while only for her ... but that became really icky for me.
Had to part. It is really the person for me ... the whole person and not just a sexy body. It is her mind, the way she thinks, my not being bored with her conversation because it is not superficial. my ramblings ... |
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09-29-2014, 09:09 PM
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I was. My lat 3 yrs relationship so non reliojish.
We don't enjoy I wish yer well I jut want her and me frock in ok!Z |
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09-30-2014, 12:12 PM
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  Speaking for myself only, when the emotional connection is severed, there is NO physical connection either. I must have an emotional connect. However I understand that for some folks it's a physical issue. Hormones out of balance, disease, or injury. Depression is a biggie. That said... it's kinda up to the individuals to decide a course of action or inaction. |
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09-30-2014, 03:27 PM
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Me too! I've always had a high sex drive, and everything was super peachy at the beginning of the relationship until it went *poof* and disappeared. Then, I began to internalize and wonder if it was me or was it her (and around and around I went in my head...thinking too much). Now, the question is how to bring it back and to do it in such a way that it was like when we first met, but if it can't happen, I guess if it doesn't end up being both ways, I'll have to re-evaluate.
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