Relationships - What things do you want & need? - Page 6

RockOn · 09-30-2014, 10:05 PM

oh yes, slow dance hold her close against me, breathing in her scent ...

Sweet Bliss · 09-30-2014, 10:35 PM

Someone who dances in the store with me... will stop driving so I can dance to my favorite songs... watches intently when I dance.... sigh.

Geez... I miss disco nights.

SleepyButch · 09-30-2014, 10:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet Bliss

Someone who dances in the store with me... will stop driving so I can dance to my favorite songs... watches intently when I dance.... sigh.

Geez... I miss disco nights.

Disco!!!! I love disco. I'm positive that person is out there for you somewhere! Don't give up!

SleepyButch · 09-30-2014, 10:39 PM

Someone who wants to be seduced and teased building that sexual tension between us.

JDeere · 09-30-2014, 10:43 PM

Someone who will give massages and doesn't mind sitting in the middle of the bench seat next to me in my truck!

RockOn · 10-03-2014, 06:51 PM

I think I would rather it be my face ... instead of the bench.

"As long as I have a face, sweetheart, you will always have a place to sit."

RockOn · 10-06-2014, 08:13 PM

Sometimes some femmes are so funny. I make a crude, tacky sexual comment like the one above. They won't thank me publicly but will make notice of it in the hidden private comments reputation type points.

raising index finger to mouth - shhhhh, I won't tell *wink*
No worries, our secret! LOL!

Gemme · 10-06-2014, 08:20 PM

Well, I guess that's the type of femme you would want/need to be in a relationship with.

Sweet Bliss · 10-06-2014, 08:46 PM

JD gets gold star for his post. I fit quite nicely on bench seat next to the driver.... and he can still shift gears.....

femmsational · 10-06-2014, 08:47 PM

For someone................to get a home job so they can take out the damn trash!!!!!!!!!

RockOn · 10-06-2014, 09:11 PM

In reality Gemme, I would be very different in my remarks here if I were wanting or hopeful of finding a partner online ... a lot more keyed down and respectable acting... but since I would not even consider a LDR, I think maybe I go for the effect ... see what kind of playfulness can be evoked if I am in a "take it to the edge" mood. And if I drop off the edge, no one cares and I do not mind at all either.

JDeere · 10-06-2014, 09:14 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet Bliss

JD gets gold star for his post. I fit quite nicely on bench seat next to the driver.... and he can still shift gears.....

Oh my goodness I didn't see this till now and Thank you!

Takes Gold Star and runs off with it!

Sweet Bliss · 10-06-2014, 09:16 PM

.............

<……… taking out trash face.

JDeere · 10-06-2014, 09:17 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Sweet Bliss

.............

Oh and takes the rose and puts you in my room, in water!

Sorry had a dummy moment!

femmsational · 10-06-2014, 09:28 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet Bliss

.............

<……… taking out trash face.

Yeah....every sunday night, that's my face. And a few others I will not share in polite company.

Sweet Bliss · 10-06-2014, 09:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by femmsational

Yeah....every sunday night, that's my face. And a few others I will not share in polite company.

< Sunday AND Wednesday night face..... and the push giant trash can to curb face will remain undisclosed to protect the innocent.

arrrggghh!!

SleepyButch · 10-06-2014, 10:06 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by JDeere

Oh and takes the rose and puts you in my room, in water!

Sorry had a dummy moment!

I had a dummy moment also. I couldn't figure out why you took the rose and then put Sweet Bliss in your room in water... lol

To each their own I suppose.. I'm still cracking up.

JDeere · 10-06-2014, 10:12 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleepyButch

I had a dummy moment also. I couldn't figure out why you took the rose and then put Sweet Bliss in your room in water... lol

To each their own I suppose.. I'm still cracking up.

HAHAHA Poor Sleep!

SleepyButch · 10-06-2014, 10:38 PM

I just thought of this one or actually have thought of it in the past but was reminded of it tonight...

I need to be in a relationship with someone who truly appreciates me and my romantic side. It brings me a lot of joy and pleasure being romantic whether it's small gestures or large ones. I love it so she must also!

Kenna · 10-06-2014, 11:09 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by SleepyButch

I just thought of this one or actually have thought of it in the past but was reminded of it tonight...

I need to be in a relationship with someone who truly appreciates me and my romantic side. It brings me a lot of joy and pleasure being romantic whether it's small gestures or large ones. I love it so she must also!

I often don't participate in this type thread because I can't put together the correct words for my feelings...but if I may with Sleepy's permission, plagiarize his post? My feelings exactly...as well as, I need and want someone that's emotionally stable, secure and confident. I need/want a healthy relationship, with healthy, positive energy that's built on a foundation of respect, integrity, and mutual acceptance and "listening to" each other's boundaries, desires and space...I need a relationship without fear of abuse, narcissistic or energy draining people....

In 2008, I was awarded the maximum 3 year restraing order against (a cismale that I hadn't been in a relationship with but I had allowed too close to my son and myself) who was very narcissistic and abusive. I learned a lot during that experience and what I needed in my relationships.
My main goal is a very healthy, very stable, mutually affectionate, deep connection with a compatible person who doesn't" crash" or get abusive when I need space or interact with friends and family.

A SOLID foundation to our connection (example friends first and getting to know each other slowly) is my key...as I've seen other relationships crumble very quickly when their foundation is built on resentfulness, spite, jealousy, or negative intentions.

09-30-2014, 10:39 PM	#104
SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,511 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,248 Times in 2,754 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	Someone who wants to be seduced and teased building that sexual tension between us. __________________ . You cannot embrace those things that will not embrace you back.

09-30-2014, 10:43 PM	#105
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,836 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Someone who will give massages and doesn't mind sitting in the middle of the bench seat next to me in my truck! __________________ Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow. The important thing is not to stop questioning. Albert Einstein

10-06-2014, 08:20 PM	#108
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,973 Times in 25,664 Posts Rep Power: 21474888	Well, I guess that's the type of femme you would want/need to be in a relationship with. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

10-06-2014, 08:47 PM	#110
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10-06-2014, 10:38 PM	#119
SleepyButch Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Dude Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him Relationship Status: Taken Join Date: Jun 2012 Location: Hidden Valley Ranch Posts: 3,511 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,220 Thanked 11,248 Times in 2,754 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I just thought of this one or actually have thought of it in the past but was reminded of it tonight... I need to be in a relationship with someone who truly appreciates me and my romantic side. It brings me a lot of joy and pleasure being romantic whether it's small gestures or large ones. I love it so she must also! __________________ . You cannot embrace those things that will not embrace you back.

09-30-2014, 10:05 PM	#101
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	oh yes, slow dance hold her close against me, breathing in her scent ...

09-30-2014, 10:35 PM	#102
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Someone who dances in the store with me... will stop driving so I can dance to my favorite songs... watches intently when I dance.... sigh. Geez... I miss disco nights.

10-03-2014, 06:51 PM	#106
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	I think I would rather it be my face ... instead of the bench. "As long as I have a face, sweetheart, you will always have a place to sit."

10-06-2014, 08:13 PM	#107
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Sometimes some femmes are so funny. I make a crude, tacky sexual comment like the one above. They won't thank me publicly but will make notice of it in the hidden private comments reputation type points. raising index finger to mouth - shhhhh, I won't tell wink No worries, our secret! LOL!

10-06-2014, 08:46 PM	#109
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	JD gets gold star for his post. I fit quite nicely on bench seat next to the driver.... and he can still shift gears.....

10-06-2014, 09:11 PM	#111
RockOn Senior Member How Do You Identify?: sitting over there ----->>>>> :) Preferred Pronoun?: .... Relationship Status: .... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: .... Posts: 3,522 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,081 Thanked 10,304 Times in 2,610 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	In reality Gemme, I would be very different in my remarks here if I were wanting or hopeful of finding a partner online ... a lot more keyed down and respectable acting... but since I would not even consider a LDR, I think maybe I go for the effect ... see what kind of playfulness can be evoked if I am in a "take it to the edge" mood. And if I drop off the edge, no one cares and I do not mind at all either.

10-06-2014, 09:16 PM	#113
Sweet Bliss Senior Member How Do You Identify?: I Am Preferred Pronoun?: she Relationship Status: solo Join Date: Mar 2010 Location: the Beach, Pacific side Posts: 4,160 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5,354 Thanked 7,268 Times in 2,159 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	............. <……… taking out trash face.