What are your life basics?

Blade · 01-25-2015, 08:25 PM

I need my me space
I need my critters, they vary from time to time
I need spiritual time
I need to be close to the mountains but not to far from the ocean
I need time with family and watching the little ones grow
I need my home and the security it gives me
I need good neighbors and friends
I need a challenging job
I need short trips and travel, visiting
I need to help others, it's ingrained in me
I need to be understood

Daniela · 01-25-2015, 09:19 PM

I need to follow my own set of ethics so that I can look at myself in the mirror at the end of the day.

I need to have private space and the ability to take alone time, because social interaction can drain me.

Conversely, I need to have social interaction (in moderate and controlled doses).

I need my family - though that can be long distance.

I need to be able to be creative in some way.

I need a small group of friends.

I need to feel in control of my life.

I need to be able to laugh at things, and surround myself with people WHO (it wont let me uncapitalize WHO...WTF!) don't take life too seriously.

And last, but certainly not least, I need my iPhone.

TruTexan · 01-25-2015, 09:36 PM

I need to be loved and love in return intimately.
I need to be around people in moderate doses.
I need more good trustworthy friends in real time.
I need to feel secure in my home and basic needs.
I need to be myself and loved for just being myself.
I need to be needed and wanted and accepted.
I need to be respected.
I need to know my feelings matter and not just to myself.

Just a few things I need.

01-25-2015, 08:25 PM	#1
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,413 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	I need my me space I need my critters, they vary from time to time I need spiritual time I need to be close to the mountains but not to far from the ocean I need time with family and watching the little ones grow I need my home and the security it gives me I need good neighbors and friends I need a challenging job I need short trips and travel, visiting I need to help others, it's ingrained in me I need to be understood __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

01-25-2015, 09:36 PM	#3
TruTexan Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. Posts: 3,952 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 5,266 Times in 1,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I need to be loved and love in return intimately. I need to be around people in moderate doses. I need more good trustworthy friends in real time. I need to feel secure in my home and basic needs. I need to be myself and loved for just being myself. I need to be needed and wanted and accepted. I need to be respected. I need to know my feelings matter and not just to myself. Just a few things I need. __________________

01-25-2015, 09:19 PM	#2
Daniela Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: married Join Date: Nov 2014 Location: Jersey City Posts: 2,065 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 10,382 Thanked 5,240 Times in 1,243 Posts Rep Power: 21474849	I need to follow my own set of ethics so that I can look at myself in the mirror at the end of the day. I need to have private space and the ability to take alone time, because social interaction can drain me. Conversely, I need to have social interaction (in moderate and controlled doses). I need my family - though that can be long distance. I need to be able to be creative in some way. I need a small group of friends. I need to feel in control of my life. I need to be able to laugh at things, and surround myself with people WHO (it wont let me uncapitalize WHO...WTF!) don't take life too seriously. And last, but certainly not least, I need my iPhone.