Infidelity - Page 3

Blade · 01-06-2024, 10:48 AM

Fidelity and monogamy are at the top of my tick list. I've never cheated on anyone. I have been cheated on and it is crushing. I put all of my trust into a relationship once that trust is earned. When it is breached, I'm done. No fixing it no apology wanted or needed no excuses. Just leave me alone.

This happens in online and LDR's just as it dies in real life. Not nearly as crushing but still hurtful. I guess perhaps dew to the nature of the situation mostly being virtual.

Either way I back off and need alone time to clear my head and thoughts. Sort of back up and punt. Regroup. I always learn something about myself, so when it has happened, all is not lost, only a setback.

Orema · 01-07-2024, 05:00 AM

I have cheated and have been cheated on. It’s not good being on either side and there’s no justification for it.

I regret it but I know that the regret only benefits me.

GeorgiaMa'am · 01-08-2024, 02:35 AM

I have not cheated but I have been cheated on. Thankfully, not since I became polyamorous. It's already a complicated enough relationship, I don't know how really awful it might become if someone cheated.

And yes, it is possible to cheat in a poly relationship. We have rules, just some are different from monogamy.

01-06-2024, 10:48 AM	#1
Blade Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: TG Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: once in a while someone amazing comes along...and here I am! Join Date: Jan 2010 Location: Down on the farm Posts: 5,501 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,855 Thanked 14,413 Times in 4,058 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Fidelity and monogamy are at the top of my tick list. I've never cheated on anyone. I have been cheated on and it is crushing. I put all of my trust into a relationship once that trust is earned. When it is breached, I'm done. No fixing it no apology wanted or needed no excuses. Just leave me alone. This happens in online and LDR's just as it dies in real life. Not nearly as crushing but still hurtful. I guess perhaps dew to the nature of the situation mostly being virtual. Either way I back off and need alone time to clear my head and thoughts. Sort of back up and punt. Regroup. I always learn something about myself, so when it has happened, all is not lost, only a setback. __________________ Yeah so what if I'm triple dipped in awesome sauce? The best way to predict the future, is to create it.

01-07-2024, 05:00 AM	#2
Orema Superlative Soul Sister How Do You Identify?: Lesbian stone femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, her Relationship Status: Moving in a single file Join Date: Dec 2013 Location: Cottage of Content Posts: 13,653 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 41,463 Thanked 34,718 Times in 8,951 Posts Rep Power: 21474861	I have cheated and have been cheated on. It’s not good being on either side and there’s no justification for it. I regret it but I know that the regret only benefits me. __________________ Our power lives in knowing what they want to hide. —Ava DuVernay

01-08-2024, 02:35 AM	#3
GeorgiaMa'am Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Ma'am Preferred Pronoun?: Ma'am Relationship Status: widowed - involved, poly Join Date: May 2010 Location: Georgia Posts: 6,455 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 39,674 Thanked 28,519 Times in 5,824 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	I have not cheated but I have been cheated on. Thankfully, not since I became polyamorous. It's already a complicated enough relationship, I don't know how really awful it might become if someone cheated. And yes, it is possible to cheat in a poly relationship. We have rules, just some are different from monogamy. __________________ -GeorgiaMa'am It's true that you are blessed and lucky It's true that you are touched by something that will grow and bloom in you. -10,000 Maniacs