Cancer Support and Caregivers Who Are Trail Blazers! - Page 48

mustangjeano · 02-28-2013, 02:06 AM

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Originally Posted by FireheartForever

~ my mother has cancer ~

while she is not meant to b with me much longer, i find myself @ a loss as to ask god what i can say for her in my prayers. i dont think anything can prepare me for the loss of another parent. am i supposed to b ready for this? if so...i cant say i feel it. chemo is suppose to extend her life...but i dont see it giving her any quality. all i know is that all the joy in my life has left..it is replaced with a knawing sorrow of what is eniveitable. i understand what its like to not b able to do anything for someone whom u love n cant......... the uneviable position of feelin helpless ....

Fireheart thank you for posting and sharing so intimately your feelings at this horribly sad and difficult time. All you can do at this time is the best you can give at any given time--some days it will be a lot and others maybe less. I know what you mean about not being ready for your Mom to leave--it's always too soon. Please know that she will always be with you--I often feel my Mom's presence. Please post whenever you want us--there are so many great, compassionate, loving people here. You and your Mom are in my thoughts and prayers. Jeano

goodlilfemme · 03-01-2013, 12:33 AM

(((((((((((((fireheart))))))))))))))))))))) major hugs for you . know that your absolutely not alone in dealing with your feelings right now. know that im thinking of you and wishing for comfort for you , always goodlilfemme

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Originally Posted by mustangjeano

Fireheart thank you for posting and sharing so intimately your feelings at this horribly sad and difficult time. All you can do at this time is the best you can give at any given time--some days it will be a lot and others maybe less. I know what you mean about not being ready for your Mom to leave--it's always too soon. Please know that she will always be with you--I often feel my Mom's presence. Please post whenever you want us--there are so many great, compassionate, loving people here. You and your Mom are in my thoughts and prayers. Jeano

clay · 03-01-2013, 05:01 AM

((((((((((((((((((((((deb u taunt)))))))))))))))))))))))....

Tommi · 03-01-2013, 05:39 AM

This thread....

is such a powerful, hauntingingly thought provoking, compassionate and sometimes sad, sometiimes gloriously wonderful place to see.

All with our own hopes and prayers, friends and families, we have a pkace to come and share, acknowledge, or just support in thought.

Our worlds are just an enter key, an electronic highway away. Driving by to say Love, and Thoughts, and precious memories be with you all.

Tommi.

deb_U_taunt · 03-06-2013, 09:26 PM

I am counting down the damn days. This is so frustrating. Its been 18 months since my last chemo treatment and while its better, its still a pain in the ass.

Chemo Brain:
While frustrating, the ultimate outcome is very good: symptoms typically disappear in about four years.

clay · 03-14-2013, 05:19 PM

Had my 15 month Check Up today with my Oncology Practitioner.
My CEA is within normal limits, has come down 1 point....
I go again in June, and again in September. That will be my yearly Re Scan..CT chest/abd/pelvis with IV Contrast.

I am very happy that today she told me my chances that were 59% Survival rate, now bring me up to a 75% 5 year survival rate...and that each 3 month checkup, being within normal ranges, decreases my chances of recurrence.
I am very happy with this, but by same token, I feel a sense of sadness to post my good news here.....a bittersweet kind of feeling..... I know all of us here will understand this...

Know my heart is with each and everyone of us..always...I heart you all...Clay

mustangjeano · 03-15-2013, 12:20 AM

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Originally Posted by clay

Had my 15 month Check Up today with my Oncology Practitioner.
My CEA is within normal limits, has come down 1 point....
I go again in June, and again in September. That will be my yearly Re Scan..CT chest/abd/pelvis with IV Contrast.

I am very happy that today she told me my chances that were 59% Survival rate, now bring me up to a 75% 5 year survival rate...and that each 3 month checkup, being within normal ranges, decreases my chances of recurrence.
I am very happy with this, but by same token, I feel a sense of sadness to post my good news here.....a bittersweet kind of feeling..... I know all of us here will understand this...

Know my heart is with each and everyone of us..always...I heart you all...Clay

Hey Bro, thanks for sharing your good news--never feel sad about that--we all rejoice with you and need to hear the good news stories. It gives hope to everyone.

clay · 03-15-2013, 07:36 AM

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Originally Posted by mustangjeano

Hey Bro, thanks for sharing your good news--never feel sad about that--we all rejoice with you and need to hear the good news stories. It gives hope to everyone.

Hey Jean..thanks so much! I so appreciate you. You are one of the kindest, most compassionate, and solid people I know. You are always so wonderful for each of us here.

You mean so very much to me, and the others here as well.

Thanks..have a great weekend Jean...Clay

deb_U_taunt · 03-16-2013, 07:01 PM

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Originally Posted by clay

Had my 15 month Check Up today with my Oncology Practitioner.
My CEA is within normal limits, has come down 1 point....
I go again in June, and again in September. That will be my yearly Re Scan..CT chest/abd/pelvis with IV Contrast.

I am very happy that today she told me my chances that were 59% Survival rate, now bring me up to a 75% 5 year survival rate...and that each 3 month checkup, being within normal ranges, decreases my chances of recurrence.
I am very happy with this, but by same token, I feel a sense of sadness to post my good news here.....a bittersweet kind of feeling..... I know all of us here will understand this...

Know my heart is with each and everyone of us..always...I heart you all...Clay

wonderful wonderful news!!!! shout happy thoughts, its not bittersweet by no means. happy news is the best news

kittygrrl · 03-16-2013, 07:17 PM

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Originally Posted by deb_U_taunt

I am counting down the damn days. This is so frustrating. Its been 18 months since my last chemo treatment and while its better, its still a pain in the ass.

Chemo Brain:
While frustrating, the ultimate outcome is very good: symptoms typically disappear in about four years.

It's been several years for my sister and she says she is just now feeling what used to be normal. She had lung cancer, had a partial lung removal, chemo that almost killed her three times..she had bone scans every 3 months for years but the last few years twice a year. It's been grueling with a lot of other kinds of heart ache along the way. She is brave, much braver then I would be.

deb_U_taunt · 03-16-2013, 07:23 PM

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Originally Posted by kittygrrl

It's been several years for my sister and she says she is just now feeling what used to be normal. She had lung cancer, had a partial lung removal, chemo that almost killed her three times..she had bone scans every 3 months for years but the last few years twice a year. It's been grueling with a lot of other kinds of heart ache along the way. She is brave, much braver then I would be.

kittygirl, its amazing what strength you have when you need it. We can surprise ourselves with what we are capable of. Your inner strength is there.

Glad to to hear your sister is moving forward and is still in recovery.

Hugs, Deb

DapperButch · 04-17-2013, 07:03 PM

HAPPY COLONOSCOPY DAY TOMORROW, DAPPER!

rhopar · 04-17-2013, 07:27 PM

As a cancer survivor of 9 years on this coming November 21, 2013, I would like to send prayers to all who are fighting this terrible disease. Never give up, stay faithful, keep praying and fight, fight, fight!! Many, many people have won this battle and you can also!!

mustangjeano · 04-17-2013, 11:48 PM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

HAPPY COLONOSCOPY DAY TOMORROW, DAPPER!

Hey Dapper, by now you have already been thru the worst part ( drinking the stuff and cleaning out) except for waiting for the results. I will be thinking the very best thoughts for good news. We will all celebrate with you! Jean

DapperButch · 04-18-2013, 09:05 AM

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Originally Posted by mustangjeano

Hey Dapper, by now you have already been thru the worst part ( drinking the stuff and cleaning out) except for waiting for the results. I will be thinking the very best thoughts for good news. We will all celebrate with you! Jean

Well, it is time for that celebration! No cancer, here!

2 polyps. Back in 18 months.

mustangjeano · 04-19-2013, 12:08 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

Well, it is time for that celebration! No cancer, here!

2 polyps. Back in 18 months.

WoooHoooo! Thanks for sharing the great news. That is, without a DOUBT, THE BEST NEWS i HAVE HEARD TRODAy. Jean

Tommi · 04-19-2013, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

Well, it is time for that celebration! No cancer, here!

2 polyps. Back in 18 months.

Tommi · 04-19-2013, 12:17 AM

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Originally Posted by rhopar

As a cancer survivor of 9 years on this coming November 21, 2013, I would like to send prayers to all who are fighting this terrible disease. Never give up, stay faithful, keep praying and fight, fight, fight!! Many, many people have won this battle and you can also!!

Hey Hey..way to go. Yep, keep on keepin on .

We are in the same club. May 15th will be 9 years for me.

DapperButch · 04-19-2013, 05:42 AM

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Originally Posted by Tommi

Hey Hey..way to go. Yep, keep on keepin on .

We are in the same club. May 15th will be 9 years for me.

Congrats, Tommi!

deb_U_taunt · 04-23-2013, 05:09 PM

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Originally Posted by DapperButch

Well, it is time for that celebration! No cancer, here!

2 polyps. Back in 18 months.

Fantastic news!!!!

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