what NOT to do in a relationship.......

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Originally Posted by MrSunshine

Yes, same can be said for butch/he/she/whatnot should be like. Individuality is hard for some to separate I suppose.

yes, i was going to edit it to include the other way around too, but i got caught up in something.

it seems like people were posting from their *me* space so that is why i originally wrote what i did.

but i agree with you! some may wish to mash a new lover into an old or set mental framework (for either gender)--not cool.