Open Letter: Dear Femme

Diva · 12-05-2009, 08:25 AM

I love this thread.
I love the way the conversation flow is respectful and searching and sane.

Something e said to Kosmo spoke to me, and blush, too....right.....a butch can't answer these questions for us. But I would take this one step further and say NO ONE can answer these questions for me, BUT me. No one can answer them for blush EXCEPT blush...and so on and so forth.

And, while I love this thread...and all the wise words that are put out here ~ convo is a GOOD thing! ~ in the end, it is up to me.

It is up to me to be strong.
It is up to me not to be objectified.
It is up to me not to be a doormat.
It is up to me not to be invisible.
It is up to me not to whine about it.

I am a strong submissivewomanmomteacherdivathangetc. If I am in a relationship, I have no problem saying that I will be supportive of my partner, because I will have had the good sense to have found Someone who will also be supportive of me. (And blush, I know You have that! <smile> )

I hope this hasn't been an offensive post. We are ALL on this journey......for ourselves.....and yet.....in sisterhood.

12-05-2009, 08:25 AM	#25
Diva Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Diva Preferred Pronoun?: Diva Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Chez Diva Posts: 11,879 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,263 Thanked 17,175 Times in 5,239 Posts Rep Power: 0	I love this thread. I love the way the conversation flow is respectful and searching and sane. Something e said to Kosmo spoke to me, and blush, too....right.....a butch can't answer these questions for us. But I would take this one step further and say NO ONE can answer these questions for me, BUT me. No one can answer them for blush EXCEPT blush...and so on and so forth. And, while I love this thread...and all the wise words that are put out here ~ convo is a GOOD thing! ~ in the end, it is up to me. It is up to me to be strong. It is up to me not to be objectified. It is up to me not to be a doormat. It is up to me not to be invisible. It is up to me not to whine about it. I am a strong submissivewomanmomteacherdivathangetc. If I am in a relationship, I have no problem saying that I will be supportive of my partner, because I will have had the good sense to have found Someone who will also be supportive of me. (And blush, I know You have that! <smile> ) I hope this hasn't been an offensive post. We are ALL on this journey......for ourselves.....and yet.....in sisterhood.