Picking apart a femme

theoddz · 08-19-2010, 09:32 AM

Ms. Softness, I know you are probably directing your questions to the Femmes here, but I have to say something about all people and being a decent human being, in general.

I think it is terrible form and an utter lack of common decency and manners for anyone, be they Butch, Femme, Trans, etc., to point out another person's physical characteristics in a disrespectful or demeaning way. No one is perfect, in either thought or deed, but to focus on another person's physical attributes as a way of cutting them down just seems to go beyond the beyonds of ill manners.....at least to me. I guess some folks need to demean others in order to feel better about themselves.

My Pop has always taught me that "Critical judgment is self judgment". When a person points a judgmental finger at another, three fingers point back at them.

Thank you for allowing me to comment in your thread.

Respectfully,
~Theo~

08-19-2010, 09:32 AM	#11
theoddz Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Cranky Old Poop Preferred Pronoun?: Mr. Beast Relationship Status: Married to a beautiful babe whom I don't deserve. Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Central Texas Posts: 3,547 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 11,163 Thanked 9,942 Times in 2,518 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	Ms. Softness, I know you are probably directing your questions to the Femmes here, but I have to say something about all people and being a decent human being, in general. I think it is terrible form and an utter lack of common decency and manners for anyone, be they Butch, Femme, Trans, etc., to point out another person's physical characteristics in a disrespectful or demeaning way. No one is perfect, in either thought or deed, but to focus on another person's physical attributes as a way of cutting them down just seems to go beyond the beyonds of ill manners.....at least to me. I guess some folks need to demean others in order to feel better about themselves. My Pop has always taught me that *"Critical judgment is self judgment". When a person points a judgmental finger at another, three fingers point back at them. Thank you for allowing me to comment in your thread. Respectfully, ~Theo~* __________________ *"All that is gold does not glitter, Not all those who wander are lost; The old that is strong does not wither, Deep roots are not reached by the frost."* -- J. R. R. Tolkien Last edited by theoddz; 08-19-2010 at 10:02 AM. Reason: My grammar isn't great first thing in the morning.