Dating women with children, any thoughts?

[LaneyDoll]

Originally Posted by J. Mason

no it's not but when he says negative things about you to the kids there is a problem, IMO

Seems to me that the problem here is with the father, not the kids. Your s/o needs to address this issue-both with the father & the children. She may not be able to change the father's attitude but maybe she can use it in a lesson to the kids of "how people sometimes are hurt or angry and they say mean, untrue things about other people." The main thing is to not sink to that level & say mean things in return. Kids are not pawns.