Dating other femmes exes: what do you think?

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Originally Posted by The_Lady_Snow

I was speaking for myself in regards to sexy time and dating my homies EXes. I'm not assuming everyone is out to partake in sexy time.

Thanks, but it wasn't your comments that bothered me.

A couple of other folks have several times now implied that it's a simple case of choosing between a long standing relationship with a femme 'sister' and 'sexy time' with her ex and that obviously, the relationship should take priority. I just don't think it's that simple, and to be honest, it surprises me that others do. It just seems...well, like we're working according to the assumption that femmes are driven in making difficult decisions by what's between their legs (who they want between their legs?)....and that, to me, feels pretty icky.

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