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			Uranus will retrograde in Gemini Join Date: Nov 2009 
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			i'm highly allergic to all kinds of alcohol...beer, most wine, vodka..all of it 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			 
		
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			As a very feminine woman. Join Date: May 2010 
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			My type of work involves dealing with a lot of people, which can be overwhelming at times because  I am quiet by nature, live rather quietly, and actually like a quiet, peaceful, conflict-free atmosphere.  Work has its own brand or type of conflicts, which is oft times typical when engaging with lots of people.  I am very much an introvert.  Capable of extroversion when necessary, but I prefer the quiet introversion of my life.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I too am a very quiet person but can be an extrovert in business and in social situations.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I prefer the peace and quiet of my little ranch to almost everything else. The best way to describe me is that I am like a cat. I lay quietly in my lair and come out to play when I feel like it. I enjoy having friends and visiting them but I feel no need to be with people all of the time.  
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			Consumption of alcohol or alcoholism has no place in my life anymore.  I attend Al-anon, I have a sponsor in the program too.   Alcohol does nothing for me.  I used to partake of alcohol on rare occasion,  maybe once a year, an casual sip at a social function, but alcoholism is prevalent in my family.  My dad was an dry alcoholic,  his behaviors were atrocious, my youngest son is an alcoholic, but I don't suffer from alcoholism except to say I suffered far too long with members of my own family who are alcoholics, and alcoholism.  I won't date or even partner with anyone who is an alcoholic.  I won't even date or partner with anyone in recovery.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Most people from the "old" chat room know that I'm not a fan of company! 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I don't mind if they come to visit and stay at a hotel, that works for me  
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			Very good. Thank you for asking. Join Date: Feb 2013 
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			I truly dislike use of the words: bitch, slut, lady, and classy. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			The first two because they are used to degrade women ( no matter how playfully used) even, and maybe particularly, by women. The second two because they are essentially meaningless beyond the 19th Century and always used by the wrong people. 
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			I am extremely private about my life off of the site. 
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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