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Old 12-17-2009, 05:52 AM   #1
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'high maintenance' is just some term that men have applied to women to demean their accomplishments, their independence, their equality. 'HM' is what a man calls a woman who won't date him, finds him uninteresting, realizes early/instead of sleeping with him, that he's got not much to offer her. 'HM' is when a man finds a woman 'difficult'. 'HM' is for when a man fancies himself 'evolved' so he won't call this woman a "bitch", at least not to her face.

with regards to attitude and demeanor. that's not HIGH anything. we've all got that, it's power that we're born with by virtue of being (wonderful, fabulous and amazing) women.

perhaps you find your friend more self-possessed than yourself?

and count me as another who's never known a 'low femme'.

Hmmm ... no. Can't say that would be the case.

My friend used high maintenance to describe herself. This was about the very first time I have ever heard that being used. (Which is why when I hear that, I automatically think of her).

Will come back to this when I have more time (and am more awake).
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Old 12-17-2009, 04:26 PM   #2
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...I wasn't really drunk, btw. Just trying to be funny. Don't think it worked, though.

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...I wasn't really drunk, btw. Just trying to be funny. Don't think it worked, though.

I laughed and visualized Hello Kitty stumbling through the Arwen's living room.

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