Married/Partnered Planeteers - Combining Your Life

suebee · 01-25-2011, 10:21 PM

We have decided that in order to live in the same home we need a duplex with an adjoining living room.

lionpaw · 01-26-2011, 12:51 AM

My wife and I have been looking for a house for sometime, but we're looking for something that gives us enough both room for our own down time. I'm a type A personality while my wife likes to chill alot. It took me a long time to learn how to relax and smell the roses.

citybutch · 01-26-2011, 08:34 AM

I've seen that too... but I couldn't do it... I would miss her too much. We are both so busy that much of the time we are passing each other in the doorway. This week we agreed we would have OUR time after she works on Sunday....

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Originally Posted by June

I've seen quite a few long-term relationships where each person had their own house. I like co-habitating, but I also need a lot of down time/quiet time, especially in the evenings. I am more social in the morning and afternoons.

I can't be with someone who is all up in my business all the time, it makes me cranky. Kind of like putting stuff on a bookshelf all willy-nilly does (tie in to the thread). Things should have some order and look pretty.

And yeah, I really am fussy like this, and then some.

01-25-2011, 10:21 PM	#1
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01-26-2011, 12:51 AM	#2
lionpaw Member How Do You Identify?: very married lesbian couple-there are two of us that use this site Join Date: Sep 2010 Location: pa Posts: 734 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,585 Thanked 1,579 Times in 517 Posts Rep Power: 2193030	My wife and I have been looking for a house for sometime, but we're looking for something that gives us enough both room for our own down time. I'm a type A personality while my wife likes to chill alot. It took me a long time to learn how to relax and smell the roses.