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			I just wanted to add that I feel the title the woman chose for her blog post is unfortunate.  I have been thinking how I would react if my wife decided that she felt she was really a man and needed to transition.  I can’t imagine that after loving her for almost nine years that I would find it hard to love him.  I may no longer feel the same attraction for him, I may no longer be in love with him, but it would never be that it was hard or easy to love him, it would just simply be, that I do love him.  But most likely for me the love would change because I am attracted to women. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			I'm sure that's what she meant and finding her way to the IN love again part is what she was referring to. It just made me feel a certain way to read the title of the thread and it took awhile to figure out what was going on for me. 
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 I have found loving a transman to be the easiest, sweetest, most rewarding love of my life. 
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			We don't know that the author chose it as the title - it could've been the site editors.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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			Ah.  Okay.  That makes more sense.  Cause really it is an odd title choice.   And doesn't really reflect what she is saying very well.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
			
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