FTM's Attracted to Femmes

veryfemme · 12-23-2011, 11:37 PM

I really couldnt tell you but I have been turned away for being too girly and its hard and I hate it

atomiczombie · 12-24-2011, 12:31 AM

I am all about the femmes. I have no romantic or sexual interest in the fellas. But hey, there's nothing wrong with FTM's who like butches and other FTMs. To each their own.

veryfemme · 12-24-2011, 12:46 AM

I agree completely!

mustangjeano · 12-24-2011, 12:55 AM

There is no such thing as "too girly" in my book.
The more femme the better.

Quintease · 12-24-2011, 04:28 AM

It's funny, as I read the OP's post and realised that all the FTM's I know are dating femme(y-type) girls, even if they didn't necessarily before transition.

LiaPDX · 12-24-2011, 04:59 AM

I can confirm the "too femme" response. I've been told that by women who are not FTM.. That I'm too girly, and they prefer a soft butch or someone who is "sporty".
*shrugs* but it's all about visual preference to some. Which is cool, it's their thing.

Sachita · 12-24-2011, 05:18 AM

In the world of love and lust we just can't generalize. Of course we can have a 10 page tread proving that point yet again, debate, even argue or what we all know is true... it doesnt matter how you ID, what color, religion, etc. we're going to fuck who we want. As it should be.

Ebon · 12-28-2011, 08:49 PM

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Originally Posted by veryfemme

I really couldnt tell you but I have been turned away for being too girly and its hard and I hate it

Never too girly. The girlier the better like Bo said. I like someone that will balance out my masculine energy with their feminine energy. A friend of mine got cornered once in a lesbian bar because she's femme. They assumed that she was straight. I thought it was very narrow minded of them. For a long time I didn't realize I could have a girlfriend that was femme, hell I didn't even know what it was. A friend of mine said to me that I liked straight girls so I thought I did, until I found the butch-femme community and realized that I just liked femmes.

Before anyone starts a lesson on gendernomics I realize that straight girls can also be butch and femme girls can be straight etc and so on....

veryfemme · 12-30-2011, 08:38 AM

I love that you said that about the balancing of energy because that is so key to me is finding that balance between my extreme feminine side their masculine side.

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Originally Posted by Ebon

Never too girly. The girlier the better like Bo said. I like someone that will balance out my masculine energy with their feminine energy. A friend of mine got cornered once in a lesbian bar because she's femme. They assumed that she was straight. I thought it was very narrow minded of them. For a long time I didn't realize I could have a girlfriend that was femme, hell I didn't even know what it was. A friend of mine said to me that I liked straight girls so I thought I did, until I found the butch-femme community and realized that I just liked femmes.

Before anyone starts a lesson on gendernomics I realize that straight girls can also be butch and femme girls can be straight etc and so on....

alphadaddy · 07-30-2012, 01:35 PM

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Originally Posted by veryfemme

I really couldnt tell you but I have been turned away for being too girly and its hard and I hate it

Is there really such a thing...i can't even imagine

Duchess · 08-29-2012, 09:57 PM

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Originally Posted by veryfemme

I really couldnt tell you but I have been turned away for being too girly and its hard and I hate it

I can totally relate!!

Leigh · 08-29-2012, 11:37 PM

Just came in to say hi to everyone

12-24-2011, 12:31 AM	#2
atomiczombie Member How Do You Identify?: Femmesensual Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His Relationship Status: Dating Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Rio Vista, CA Posts: 1,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,949 Thanked 3,221 Times in 759 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	I am all about the femmes. I have no romantic or sexual interest in the fellas. But hey, there's nothing wrong with FTM's who like butches and other FTMs. To each their own. __________________ http://i277.photobucket.com/albums/k...orums_2000.gif Russian Unicorn http://occupiedmedia.us/

12-24-2011, 12:55 AM	#4
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12-24-2011, 04:28 AM	#5
Quintease Member How Do You Identify?: Rainbow femme Preferred Pronoun?: princess Relationship Status: Married Join Date: Apr 2011 Location: United Kingdom Posts: 514 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 508 Thanked 1,817 Times in 417 Posts Rep Power: 10560327	It's funny, as I read the OP's post and realised that all the FTM's I know are dating femme(y-type) girls, even if they didn't necessarily before transition. __________________ It is not worth an intelligent person's time to be in the majority. By definition, there are already enough people to do that.

12-24-2011, 05:18 AM	#7
Sachita Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Goddess Relationship Status: Completely in love Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Southern Virginia Posts: 3,225 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,564 Thanked 8,993 Times in 2,247 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	In the world of love and lust we just can't generalize. Of course we can have a 10 page tread proving that point yet again, debate, even argue or what we all know is true... it doesnt matter how you ID, what color, religion, etc. we're going to fuck who we want. As it should be. __________________ You either like me or you don't. It took me Twenty-something years to learn how to love myself, I don't have that kinda time to convince somebody else. ~ Daniel Franzese

08-29-2012, 11:37 PM	#12
Leigh Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, etc Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Canada Posts: 7,767 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 9,029 Thanked 13,024 Times in 4,784 Posts Rep Power: 21474859	Just came in to say hi to everyone __________________ "When you fall off the wagon ... clutch the sides of it until you get a better grip!"

12-23-2011, 11:37 PM	#1
veryfemme Junior Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme/lady Relationship Status: Spoken For Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 83 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15 Thanked 227 Times in 41 Posts Rep Power: 3539929	I really couldnt tell you but I have been turned away for being too girly and its hard and I hate it

12-24-2011, 12:46 AM	#3
veryfemme Junior Member How Do You Identify?: High Femme Preferred Pronoun?: femme/lady Relationship Status: Spoken For Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Florida Posts: 83 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15 Thanked 227 Times in 41 Posts Rep Power: 3539929	I agree completely!

12-24-2011, 04:59 AM	#6
LiaPDX Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Very femme - which means the only hiking I do, is across a mall. Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Dec 2011 Location: Oregon Posts: 7 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 22 Thanked 28 Times in 2 Posts Rep Power: 0	I can confirm the "too femme" response. I've been told that by women who are not FTM.. That I'm too girly, and they prefer a soft butch or someone who is "sporty". shrugs but it's all about visual preference to some. Which is cool, it's their thing.