Flirting by text

[apretty]

Originally Posted by HoustonHuny

HAHAHA...

Well apretty, it sure wasn't conscious flirting, however, subconscious is a whole nother matter, something we have no control over and are not even aware of. Obviously I got some reaction because "U" is posting sweet notes on my profile. LOL

It seems as though you're new to the site and possibly to the internet. I am going to give you some unsolicited advice--Most of us interact with each other as if we really do know one another because we really do, or as if we will meet or at least like we're a friend-of-a-friend because we really are: The degrees of separation are few.

So, I beg you consider the reader/s of your posts because there are many, even if no one responds--You're being read and it's a really good idea to not be mistaken for a lunatic (if humor is your aim and you find your attempts falling flat), if community is what you're after--And there's a really amazing community to be had here.

Luck to you.

[nicetgurl_30]

Okay i lOve banter and flirty text, but is it crossing line when person sends u nude pics? I mean I was being flirty but was hoping for wanting to work for it! Maybe I shouldn't complain and enjoy

[1QuirkyKiwi]

Originally Posted by nicetgurl_30

Okay i lOve banter and flirty text, but is it crossing line when person sends u nude pics? I mean I was being flirty but was hoping for wanting to work for it! Maybe I shouldn't complain and enjoy

Personally speaking, when I’m dating if nude photos are sent I will back off from the person….I’m by no means a prude, but, I do have standards of integrity that I feel should not be crossed until we have both agreed on the relationship being exclusive to each other. I enjoy the getting to know each other first, allowing the rest will follow naturally....

[Martina]

this is not flirting, but texting gone awry. i have a good friend, a femme actually, whom i occasionally address in a friendly way as "slut" or "whore." Anyway, i once thought i had texted this friend, but instead sent "SLUT!" to my Ma'am. i got this as a reply "??"

i sent an immediate apology and oops text to Her. She has class. She didn't even mention it. But i have definitely had texting mishaps.

[HoustonHuny]

Originally Posted by apretty

It seems as though you're new to the site and possibly to the internet. I am going to give you some unsolicited advice--Most of us interact with each other as if we really do know one another because we really do, or as if we will meet or at least like we're a friend-of-a-friend because we really are: The degrees of separation are few.

So, I beg you consider the reader/s of your posts because there are many, even if no one responds--You're being read and it's a really good idea to not be mistaken for a lunatic (if humor is your aim and you find your attempts falling flat), if community is what you're after--And there's a really amazing community to be had here.

Luck to you.

Dear Apretty:

It's not my fault that "U"'s message landed in my box and not the intended box, but it did. I was surprised and I had no idea what it meant. However, what I learned from this is that people here cannot handle confrontation in a healthy way. It is back room gossip and crapola at it's finest. I had an "issue" with "U"s post and here I am discussing it with you and I don't even know who you are.

For you to imply that I am a "lunatic" is just unconsionable to me. This is not a community to which I want to belong...

So yes, here is my "golden flounce." I won't be back.

[kittygrrl]

Originally Posted by HoustonHuny

Dear Apretty:

It's not my fault that "U"'s message landed in my box and not the intended box, but it did. I was surprised and I had no idea what it meant. However, what I learned from this is that people here cannot handle confrontation in a healthy way. It is back room gossip and crapola at it's finest. I had an "issue" with "U"s post and here I am discussing it with you and I don't even know who you are.

For you to imply that I am a "lunatic" is just unconsionable to me. This is not a community to which I want to belong...

So yes, here is my "golden flounce." I won't be back.

Maybe you're being a little bit hasty?!? A difference of opinion is ok here, but U does not know you and so it may have come off as a little bit over the top..think about it, if someone came at you that you didnt know in the real world and said something you thought was kinda rude, you'd be a little shocked (since you don't know this person) and have to at least consider maybe you might want to clear any misunderstanding..and i rilly think that is all this is..no need to leave. Nobody is suggesting you do.

[SnackTime]

Originally Posted by HoustonHuny

Dear Apretty:

It's not my fault that "U"'s message landed in my box and not the intended box, but it did. I was surprised and I had no idea what it meant. However, what I learned from this is that people here cannot handle confrontation in a healthy way. It is back room gossip and crapola at it's finest. I had an "issue" with "U"s post and here I am discussing it with you and I don't even know who you are.

For you to imply that I am a "lunatic" is just unconsionable to me. This is not a community to which I want to belong...

So yes, here is my "golden flounce." I won't be back.

I personally would not consider a confrontation about a honest mishap in an open and public forum healthy.

[Tcountry]

hmmmm...
I think it is somewhat easy...I just say what I am thinkin...

I am thinkin bout u...
Or I miss u

Great thing about txt...I can randomly make her smile no matter how busy she is

[SoNotHer]

A thought - one of the ways we can help keep people in the community and clarify any misunderstandings and assuage hurt feelings is to let people work out disagreements between themselves.

[jac]

Errr ummmm, I'm a text whore (so my close friends say). They all know when I am busy flirting in text... can't help but grin and blush...hehehe. I'm a flirt by nature and a very wordy kinda gy... I express myself well and I can be rather smooth to an eventual all out banter of playfulness. I can't help it... I won't help it. To me flirting is natural and healthy. It's fun!! However, it is still flirting. When I get more serious with someone, that person will truly know it... and know it for sure and certain. I guess we could say, I have levels of flirting? Yeh, we could definitely say that...
Worst flirt text moment, or rather funniest I guess... Sent a very VERY graphic flirt to my ex who was in the list of contacts right next to the person I was actually flirt texting. The response back, "OMG you're at it AGAIN!" Keeping those fingers limber are we?" LMAO oops!!

[Vlasta]

Originally Posted by HoustonHuny

Dear Apretty:

It's not my fault that "U"'s message landed in my box and not the intended box, but it did. I was surprised and I had no idea what it meant. However, what I learned from this is that people here cannot handle confrontation in a healthy way. It is back room gossip and crapola at it's finest. I had an "issue" with "U"s post and here I am discussing it with you and I don't even know who you are.

For you to imply that I am a "lunatic" is just unconsionable to me. This is not a community to which I want to belong...

So yes, here is my "golden flounce." I won't be back.

Huny ,

this it's the first time I am reading this thread . I haven't been here much lately . It sadness me that you gave up on this site so quickly . No , this it's not the boards we used to be on , laughing and making jokes of one or other .

It's too many people here , someone will get offended no matter what do you say . I am sorry to loosing you again since you are an intelligent woman and your sense of humor was misunderstood . One thing I would never do to PM butches which they are in a relationship . Even I know you , I find that disrespectful, I am sorry .

I am wishing you the best , hopefully you will find community where you will feel comfortable .

much love

Vlasta

[Point~Of~No~Return]

*smiles*

nothing is better than flirt texting

right before you're going to see someone it gives you the visual of their facial expressions, based of course on what you're texting them the shock that part that draws you in and lures you deep like you're looking into the persons eyes and watching their smile you can visualize the biting of the lip the heart beat quickening the butterflies and the nervousness build from just the excitement alone

but it's a good nervous which draws you back for more with more excitement and newer horizons to challenge each other allowing true inner desires you wouldn't normally be comfortable talking about

the tease

you know what is being felt on the other side and you feel it with in you too

flirt texting is a good ice breaker and it keeps things fresh and new

[Wryly]

what is this flirting you speak of?

*sigh* It's been so long since I've even attempted to text anyone! Once I was told that her phone wasn't able to sent texts to Canada.
I never even had luck with IM! very hopeless indeed!

[TimilDeeps]

i'm in favor of it

[Ciaran]

Originally Posted by Wryly

what is this flirting you speak of?

*sigh* It's been so long since I've even attempted to text anyone! Once I was told that her phone wasn't able to sent texts to Canada.
I never even had luck with IM! very hopeless indeed!

Any texts I send are functional only - I couldn't flirt by text even if I wanted to. I flirt with my eyes so any attempt at flirting via text or online just wouldn't work for me.

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Huge fan of the flirty text ... Makes things a wee bit interesting !