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Old 05-09-2012, 02:48 PM   #1
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I'm so glad to hear that your Onco visit went well! Bummer about the hernia but at least it can be dealt with laparoscopically.

It's amazing how much surgery can sap a persons energy, especially when they are back to back like that.

Sending my own woohoo's for you and my thank you's as well. You do so much to support, encourage and lift us all up.

Many hugs!
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Hi Vonni:
THank you for the post! It means so much to me.
Yes, having two major abd. surgeries at same time...in 6 hr period wiped me out. I am getting my strength back a little along but some days I am just so fatigued..as are most folks here who haved faced this same diagnosis (C). It just takes time is all.
I try hard to focus on the positives and support and encourage others. I am their biggest fan..sometimes all it takes to get someone to fight is someone to believe and that helps another to fight...I know it did for me.
Hoping you continue to make those small steps and keep up that awesome attitude my friend. Good to see you here....hugs..Clay
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Hi Vonni:
THank you for the post! It means so much to me.
Yes, having two major abd. surgeries at same time...in 6 hr period wiped me out. I am getting my strength back a little along but some days I am just so fatigued..as are most folks here who haved faced this same diagnosis (C). It just takes time is all.
I try hard to focus on the positives and support and encourage others. I am their biggest fan..sometimes all it takes to get someone to fight is someone to believe and that helps another to fight...I know it did for me.
Hoping you continue to make those small steps and keep up that awesome attitude my friend. Good to see you here....hugs..Clay

Man am I glad to hear this news,congrats,big butch hug to you my friend.
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I can't figure out the Youtube video thing, but this is an awesome video Katy posted on her FB page this morning that I just love. Enjoy
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There are some days (thankfully not many) when I wake up and find myself riding the rails of the pity train. Today was one of those days.

Then something or someone comes along and I get kicked back into reality.

Thank you for sharing that video.. It brought tears, smiles and that extra bit of strength I needed to get back up, dust my hindquarters off and chase the blues away ~
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I can't figure out the Youtube video thing, but this is an awesome video Katy posted on her FB page this morning that I just love. Enjoy
Wow. This is SO fantastic, Novela! I remember dragging those bags of poison (chemo) around on a pole! Egad. Memories.

I love seeing both the kids and the nurses kick cancer's ass!

I don't have a FB account, but am going to ask TF to post it to hers.
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This is so awesome Novela! Inspiring but have to tell you it made me pretty tearful, too.

Kids will get me every time!

12-years cancer-free for me following total Thyroidectomy for multiple Papillary nodules throughout my thyroid.

Dealing with non-cancer health issues right now and it helps to be reminded that kids never give up-no matter what.

Thanks for posting it and congrats Tommi!

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Wow, what a beautiful day.


For me..

Cancer came rushing in, took my breath away, pulled the carpet out from under me , then, breathing deep, I turned the hourglass over and started again.



Realizing this morning that yesterday was my anniversary, and it whizzed right by.

May 15, 8 years I ago I had a total radical hysterectomy, oopherectomy and 16 plus lymph nodes removed..surgery for endometrial cancer.

Those that know me ~understood that I Knew they had made a mistake. Surely they had it wrong.... and it must have been prostate cancer.

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Awesome milestone, Tommi! Keep that amazingly positive attitude and that wonderful humor...and you will win always! Hugs and congrats brutha!!
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For me..

Cancer came rushing in, took my breath away, pulled the carpet out from under me , then, breathing deep, I turned the hourglass over and started again.



Realizing this morning that yesterday was my anniversary, and it whizzed right by.

May 15, 8 years I ago I had a total radical hysterectomy, oopherectomy and 16 plus lymph nodes removed..surgery for endometrial cancer.

Those that know me ~understood that I Knew they had made a mistake. Surely they had it wrong.... and it must have been prostate cancer.

Celebrate...
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Tommi!!!! Hugs to you! What a great milestone

Hope you go out and do something nice for yourself to celebrate it.



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Cancer came rushing in, took my breath away, pulled the carpet out from under me , then, breathing deep, I turned the hourglass over and started again.



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Tommi ~ I love that you forgot your cancerversary! That in itself is also worthy of a celebration! Congratulations on your milestone!

Celebrate, celebrate and celebrate some more!
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