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03-18-2010, 07:20 PM
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Please forgive me if i shouldnt be in this thread and feel free to move me along. I am in the process of atarting transition because i feel i don.t totally belong in the female gender. That being said i'm not 100% sure i belong in the male either. I'm probably 70/30 but its just enough to feel uncomfortable as a female. Saying that all my clothes etc and outward display is male. Maybe if gender fluid or third gender was more accepted the way bi sexual has come to be then i wouldnt feel the need to choose. But right now i do. Maybe after transition the odds will be down to 90/10 but think i will always be a part of both. And i'm hoping my psych doesnt read this- there goes my chances of surgery!
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03-18-2010, 11:06 PM
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Hi, Alex K. Welcome to the thread! If you want to be here to talk about the "third gendered" or "other gendered" butch, than you belong here! There are lots of guys that transition in some way physically or take T and still don't define as male. Sometimes people just want their bodies to match their mind, but that doesn't mean male or female or man or woman, necessarily.
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03-19-2010, 05:10 AM
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Hey alex, Perhaps you may want to try asking questions and discussing any concerns you may have with folks on the trans threads. This is not to say you are not welcome here because you are more than welcome, but it concerns me that you are talking about transitioning before you are really sure that is what you want to do. It may be a big help for you to talk to some of the guys who have been through and are going through that huge process before just jumping into it because being a female doesn't feel quite right to you at this moment. If being a man doesn't feel right either, perhaps you want to discuss it more before taking drastic steps. I hope this finds you doing well! Keep talking about it! Sorry, I just realized I quoted Dapper instead of alex and I'm not sure how to fix that to show alex's post. Last edited by Jett; 03-19-2010 at 10:26 AM. |
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03-19-2010, 10:27 AM
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