Newbies! Introduce yourself here!

jac · 03-26-2013, 06:00 AM

Welcome to all the newbie news!! Have a fun time here and enjoy what this Planet has to offer. There's lots to experience, learn and appreciate. There's always lessons presented and lesson to share... l

Looking forward to reading your words in the threads!!

BoSoxBoi · 04-02-2013, 04:38 AM

Hello everyone. I just wanted to introduce myself since I'm new to the forum. I'm really looking forward to meeting and talking with people on here.

Irishrogue · 04-06-2013, 09:08 PM

Hello everyone ,
I just wanted to get the newbie thing out of the way ! I am looking forward to meeting and talking with people. I joined at the urging of a friend , because alot of folks here knew my cousin Mike, aka chat daddy aka Jyd. Again, looking forward to making and talking to many new friends !

always2late · 04-06-2013, 09:29 PM

Welcome to the Planet

Bèsame* · 04-06-2013, 09:32 PM

Hello new friends

( is that the cutest or what) giggling

Virago · 04-09-2013, 05:32 PM

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Originally Posted by Irishrogue

Hello everyone ,
I just wanted to get the newbie thing out of the way ! I am looking forward to meeting and talking with people. I joined at the urging of a friend , because alot of folks here knew my cousin Mike, aka chat daddy aka Jyd. Again, looking forward to making and talking to many new friends !

Hey Irish!!!!
Great to see you here. Mike would be happy you finally got here too!
Can't wait to see you when I come to your part of the world in 2 weeks!!!!!

Liam · 05-03-2013, 06:47 PM

Welcome to the Planet, newcomers!

WordsOfMyReality · 04-11-2013, 09:51 PM

Well I'd never heard of this forum prior to this past weekend at Dinah Shore in Palm Springs. I talked with an awesome woman from West Hollywood that said she is headed to my lovely town of Austin in a few weeks for an event here. So I joined the forum for two reasons... one to see what it's all about and two to see if I can find her as we lost contact Saturday night.

Any ideas on where to post?

Looking forward to learning more about this place!

wahya · 04-12-2013, 06:08 PM

Welcome! Welcome! Welcome! Everyone!

Luke · 04-14-2013, 08:53 AM

Hi.I hope I can post my introduction here again as I keep doing so in the wrong place.Is there anyone on here from U.K or Europe? I'm Luke .Am 39 teacher- ftm but haven't started transitioning .HAVE had a big conversation with parents though. Am looking for some cool like minded people to chat to!

SleepyButch · 04-14-2013, 09:35 AM

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Originally Posted by TenderDaddy

Hello to all. I'm a newbie and I thought I would take a moment to say hi. Looking forward to meeting new people and making some new friends. From what I've seen so far, this seems like an awesome place and I'm looking forward to getting to know everyone better.

Hello TD and welcome to the planet!! There are many great folks here so I'm sure you will find a lot of new friends.

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Originally Posted by Irishrogue

Hello everyone ,
I just wanted to get the newbie thing out of the way ! I am looking forward to meeting and talking with people. I joined at the urging of a friend , because alot of folks here knew my cousin Mike, aka chat daddy aka Jyd. Again, looking forward to making and talking to many new friends !

Hi Irishrogue. Welcome to the planet! Hope you have a lot of fun here! We're glad you finally joined us.

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Originally Posted by ValentineTomboy

Hello everyone, just stopping by to introduce myself.

Hey there ValentineTomboy. Thanks for introducing yourself and enjoy this great planet!!

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Originally Posted by VeganDebbie

Hello all. I am new here; well I was on this site YEARS ago, but just came back to it.

Welcome back VeganDebbie. We are happy you decided to join us again. Enjoy!!!

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Originally Posted by WordsOfMyReality

Well I'd never heard of this forum prior to this past weekend at Dinah Shore in Palm Springs. I talked with an awesome woman from West Hollywood that said she is headed to my lovely town of Austin in a few weeks for an event here. So I joined the forum for two reasons... one to see what it's all about and two to see if I can find her as we lost contact Saturday night.

Any ideas on where to post?

Looking forward to learning more about this place!

Hello WordsOfMyReality. Welcome to the planet. Is this like a Cinderella story? There are some specific threads for different areas such as California. Perhaps search for that thread and post there. Maybe you will find her again!

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Originally Posted by Luke

Hi.I hope I can post my introduction here again as I keep doing so in the wrong place.Is there anyone on here from U.K or Europe? I'm Luke .Am 39 teacher- ftm but haven't started transitioning .HAVE had a big conversation with parents though. Am looking for some cool like minded people to chat to!

Hi Luke! You'll find a lot of cool like minded folks here. Glad you found us! Have fun!!

always2late · 04-14-2013, 09:42 AM

Welcome new Planeteers! (sorry I didn't welcome you each individually, but I'm afraid I'd leave someone out in error)

AishasWrath · 11-18-2015, 08:30 PM

Newbie here, going by Aisha. I'm kind of non-gendered but I consider myself stone butch. Have been living as male for a while, but I'm having my doubts as to whether that completely fits. I prefer not to think about my birth assignment, but for what it's worth I am soon to undergo phalloplasty and I am very much looking forward to it.

The biggest question/point of confusion-and-much angst I have is the parts of calling myself stone that don't fit. I am bisexual (which people have said disqualifies me from being stone butch. I don't think it does.) Also, and this is the part I get judged harshly on--I don't get anything out of another person's pleasure. I refuse to be touched or penetrated because *I* don't like it, and I have to be the person who does all the touching/penetrating *because that is what pleases me.* I've been like that for...a while. I think it's intrinsic. Doesn't mean I can't love other people or that I'm inconsiderate to others' feelings, I just am how I am.

I've been through a lot of abusive psychiatry where my my gender and sexual preferences were used against me, and dated a lot of rotten eggs in the following attempt to normalize myself, and it's still a thing I tend to lose sleep over, so participating in a community of people who are similar in this regard seems like a good idea for not getting down on myself so much, even if it's listening/reading other people's posts.

I'm in this weird "twilight zone" where I look masculine for a woman and slightly feminine for a man, and I like that. Ideally I would look younger and grow my hair out longer so I can rock the greased-back ponytail, ah well, I'm working on it.

TruTexan · 11-18-2015, 08:59 PM

Welcome to the Planet, Aisha.

Jesse · 11-18-2015, 10:49 PM

Sending a big welcome to all of the new folks! BFP is a great place to be.

JDeere · 11-19-2015, 09:54 AM

Welcome all newbies.

04-02-2013, 04:38 AM	#2
BoSoxBoi Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Transgender, FTM, Butch Preferred Pronoun?: He (Any male pronouns will work) Relationship Status: Very much taken Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: For now.. Posts: 7 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 36 Thanked 20 Times in 6 Posts Rep Power: 0	New here.. Hello everyone. I just wanted to introduce myself since I'm new to the forum. I'm really looking forward to meeting and talking with people on here.

04-06-2013, 09:29 PM	#4
always2late Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: m'lady Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 2,000 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,834 Thanked 6,231 Times in 1,462 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Welcome to the Planet __________________ Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I'll meet you there ~ Rumi

04-06-2013, 09:32 PM	#5
Bèsame* Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Femm Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: loved by many Join Date: Sep 2012 Location: Closer to the waves Posts: 15,422 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,173 Thanked 41,018 Times in 10,768 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Hello new friends ( is that the cutest or what) giggling __________________ kisses A kiss is a whisper in your mouth. Can I borrow a kiss? I promise to give it back.

05-03-2013, 06:47 PM	#7
Liam Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Guy Preferred Pronoun?: He, Him, His Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The Evergreen State Posts: 2,269 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 14,865 Thanked 6,875 Times in 1,860 Posts Rep Power: 21474854	Welcome to the Planet, newcomers! __________________ <3 Love is weird.

04-11-2013, 09:51 PM	#8
WordsOfMyReality Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Queer Relationship Status: Very single Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: Austin Posts: 1 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 11 Times in 1 Post Rep Power: 0	Learning about New Forums! Well I'd never heard of this forum prior to this past weekend at Dinah Shore in Palm Springs. I talked with an awesome woman from West Hollywood that said she is headed to my lovely town of Austin in a few weeks for an event here. So I joined the forum for two reasons... one to see what it's all about and two to see if I can find her as we lost contact Saturday night. Any ideas on where to post? Looking forward to learning more about this place!

03-26-2013, 06:00 AM	#1
jac Timed Out - Permanent How Do You Identify?: butch stone Preferred Pronoun?: masculine ones work best... Relationship Status: ♥ engaged to spritz ♥ Join Date: Oct 2011 Location: bangor, maine Posts: 3,344 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 20,720 Thanked 16,492 Times in 2,972 Posts Rep Power: 0	Welcome to all the newbie news!! Have a fun time here and enjoy what this Planet has to offer. There's lots to experience, learn and appreciate. There's always lessons presented and lesson to share... l Looking forward to reading your words in the threads!!

04-06-2013, 09:08 PM	#3
Irishrogue Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Apr 2013 Location: Texas Posts: 1 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1 Thanked 11 Times in 1 Post Rep Power: 0	Hello everyone , I just wanted to get the newbie thing out of the way ! I am looking forward to meeting and talking with people. I joined at the urging of a friend , because alot of folks here knew my cousin Mike, aka chat daddy aka Jyd. Again, looking forward to making and talking to many new friends !

04-12-2013, 06:08 PM	#9
wahya Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Me Preferred Pronoun?: Me Relationship Status: im good Join Date: Mar 2013 Location: Massachusetts Posts: 296 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 506 Thanked 857 Times in 240 Posts Rep Power: 0	Welcome! Welcome! Welcome! Everyone!

04-14-2013, 08:53 AM	#10
Luke Junior Member How Do You Identify?: Gender queer Ftm Preferred Pronoun?: Hy,he Relationship Status: single Join Date: May 2012 Location: Near London U.K. Posts: 18 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 0 Thanked 36 Times in 9 Posts Rep Power: 1073756	Hi Hi.I hope I can post my introduction here again as I keep doing so in the wrong place.Is there anyone on here from U.K or Europe? I'm Luke .Am 39 teacher- ftm but haven't started transitioning .HAVE had a big conversation with parents though. Am looking for some cool like minded people to chat to!

04-14-2013, 09:42 AM	#12
always2late Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: m'lady Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: NJ Posts: 2,000 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 1,834 Thanked 6,231 Times in 1,462 Posts Rep Power: 21474855	Welcome new Planeteers! (sorry I didn't welcome you each individually, but I'm afraid I'd leave someone out in error) __________________ Out beyond ideas of wrongdoing and rightdoing there is a field. I'll meet you there ~ Rumi

11-18-2015, 08:30 PM	#13
AishasWrath Junior Member How Do You Identify?: It's complicated/stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: they/them Relationship Status: godspouse Join Date: Nov 2015 Location: USA Posts: 18 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 5 Thanked 31 Times in 12 Posts Rep Power: 10	Newbie here, going by Aisha. I'm kind of non-gendered but I consider myself stone butch. Have been living as male for a while, but I'm having my doubts as to whether that completely fits. I prefer not to think about my birth assignment, but for what it's worth I am soon to undergo phalloplasty and I am very much looking forward to it. The biggest question/point of confusion-and-much angst I have is the parts of calling myself stone that don't fit. I am bisexual (which people have said disqualifies me from being stone butch. I don't think it does.) Also, and this is the part I get judged harshly on--I don't get anything out of another person's pleasure. I refuse to be touched or penetrated because I don't like it, and I have to be the person who does all the touching/penetrating because that is what pleases me. I've been like that for...a while. I think it's intrinsic. Doesn't mean I can't love other people or that I'm inconsiderate to others' feelings, I just am how I am. I've been through a lot of abusive psychiatry where my my gender and sexual preferences were used against me, and dated a lot of rotten eggs in the following attempt to normalize myself, and it's still a thing I tend to lose sleep over, so participating in a community of people who are similar in this regard seems like a good idea for not getting down on myself so much, even if it's listening/reading other people's posts. I'm in this weird "twilight zone" where I look masculine for a woman and slightly feminine for a man, and I like that. Ideally I would look younger and grow my hair out longer so I can rock the greased-back ponytail, ah well, I'm working on it.

11-18-2015, 08:59 PM	#14
TruTexan Senior Member How Do You Identify?: lesbian butch Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Aug 2013 Location: in a one horse town in a large state, in the U.S. Posts: 3,952 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 6,112 Thanked 5,266 Times in 1,633 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	Welcome to the Planet, Aisha. __________________

11-18-2015, 10:49 PM	#15
Jesse Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: Transguy Preferred Pronoun?: He Relationship Status: single Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: Central West Coast of Florida Posts: 5,204 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 34,866 Thanked 17,782 Times in 3,940 Posts Rep Power: 21474857	Sending a big welcome to all of the new folks! BFP is a great place to be. __________________ “You’re so hard on yourself. Take a moment. Sit back. Marvel at your life: at the grief that softened you, at the heartache that widened you, at the suffering that strengthened you. Despite everything, you still grow. Be proud of this.”

11-19-2015, 09:54 AM	#16
JDeere Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Transgender Preferred Pronoun?: He/him/his Relationship Status: Single Join Date: Jul 2014 Location: Oklahoma Posts: 17,752 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 31,018 Thanked 28,833 Times in 9,708 Posts Rep Power: 21474865	Welcome all newbies.