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Old 05-06-2013, 05:44 PM   #1
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I live in the straight world. That is the only world that sees me. I have actually been more readily accepted in the straight world as a queer femme than I am in the gay/queer world.

I was actually part of a very large gay women's group in Delaware from it's inception, helped found it, and yet later found out that everyone all that time, 6 years, thought I just was a confused straight woman looking for friends. (They didn't "realize" I was queer until I started dating Dapper) Smh....

ETA: I am not unhappy, I love all of my friends. I do have 2 femme friends who I wish lived closer but I do have them for support.

AETA: I am a white femme and recognize my invisibility does offer me security.
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Thanks Snowy. I know it gets really old and boring. But I appreciate the time to explain any of that to my spun the fuck out mind.
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Old 05-06-2013, 09:16 PM   #3
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Thanks Snowy. I know it gets really old and boring. But I appreciate the time to explain any of that to my spun the fuck out mind.

Femme threads are my favourite: Femmes can break apart hard shit and do it without spite,, I really enjoy how real we can be regardless of how tough the conversations get!!!!
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Old 05-06-2013, 09:23 PM   #4
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Femme threads are my favourite: Femmes can break apart hard shit and do it without spite,, I really enjoy how real we can be regardless of how tough the conversations get!!!!

me too and although i stick to the fluff to keep myself out of trouble many times, i do love the hard subjects and conversations.

i love learning and seeing through someone else's eyes. Just because we are *family* does not mean i know what it's like in someone else's shoes.

Sometimes when we humble ourselves we can learn a whole lot about each other.

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