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			I live in the straight world. That is the only world that sees me. I have actually been more readily accepted in the straight world as a queer femme than I am in the gay/queer world. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I was actually part of a very large gay women's group in Delaware from it's inception, helped found it, and yet later found out that everyone all that time, 6 years, thought I just was a confused straight woman looking for friends. (They didn't "realize" I was queer until I started dating Dapper) Smh.... ETA: I am not unhappy, I love all of my friends. I do have 2 femme friends who I wish lived closer but I do have them for support. AETA: I am a white femme and recognize my invisibility does offer me security.  | 
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			I put my own care first Join Date: Jan 2010 
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			Thanks Snowy. I know it gets really old and boring. But I appreciate the time to explain any of that to my spun the fuck out mind.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 
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 Femme threads are my favourite: Femmes can break apart hard shit and do it without spite,, I really enjoy how real we can be regardless of how tough the conversations get!!!! 
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	"If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden ![]() ![]()  | 
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 me too and although i stick to the fluff to keep myself out of trouble many times, i do love the hard subjects and conversations. i love learning and seeing through someone else's eyes. Just because we are *family* does not mean i know what it's like in someone else's shoes. Sometimes when we humble ourselves we can learn a whole lot about each other.  | 
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