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04-01-2011, 01:20 PM
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Lying is not a good way to build trust....
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04-01-2011, 01:27 PM
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Very good one AtLast.
How about not explaining the whole truth or sugar coating yourself? The truth will come out and it's never pretty when it does. |
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04-01-2011, 01:30 PM
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I dont care if someone doesnt care about horses as much as I do...but never again will I let someone dangle horses in front of me like a carrot. As soon as I see that, when I know they dont have a snit of ability or interest of their own, fuckem. Me, myself, and I are the only ones who will ever give me horses again. Because that way no one but me will ever be able to take them away from me...no one, not no how is going to do THAT again to me EVER again...
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04-01-2011, 01:32 PM
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sometimes people lie to themselves and we just get caught up in it. I know I got caught up in in the past and I wasnt on guard enough to catch it. I wanted to be in love. I put blinders on. So I say we also need to take our blinders off and look good and hard at what people do as well as what they say and take time to make sure they are what they say they are..and time is the only fool proof measure of words....and its often the one thing we dont want to give in a relationship when we want to fall in love....
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Pole bachit, a lis chuye.
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04-01-2011, 02:50 PM
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04-01-2011, 02:56 PM
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Do not expect every transguy to be the same.
Every human in this world is different don't act like we aren't.
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04-01-2011, 03:36 PM
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04-01-2011, 03:38 PM
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04-01-2011, 04:11 PM
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04-01-2011, 04:27 PM
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04-01-2011, 05:03 PM
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3) I am not ever going to be a femme in shining armour again. "you are perfectly wonderful you just need someone to love you enough and all your sh*tty behaviour and bitterness about others and cr@ppy outlook and insecurities will magicly go away!" jesus what an ego I had, I swear.
6) I need a partner who does this and can do in a way I can hear them. 7) someone who can't be called on *their* shit. That's fucking irritating. go away. Honeybarbara said the above, and #3 made me laugh out loud. For real. And amen to 6 & 7 - improvement together is always necessary! |
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04-01-2011, 05:55 PM
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do not become who you think they want you to be............just be you.
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04-01-2011, 05:57 PM
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don't insult my intelligence by keeping things from me, or being sneaky.
most of the time, i already knew You did it, but by then, You've lied on top of it. and all bets are off- i'll never believe anything You say to me. oh, and if You need to go off the grid to screw around, tell me first- i'd rather consider the terms of a 'open' realtionship rather than get my feelings hurt. and if not, then don't get all bent when MY play partner comes a callin.
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04-01-2011, 07:14 PM
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Don't assume She can read your mind even if She is generally fairly good at that. i am always surprised when i do get around to communicating something i have been sitting on and She is wonderful and responsive and right there for me. What was i assuming about Her when i thought She knew by osmosis and wasn't responsive? That she didn't care? My issue, not Hers. And i have done that in every relationship i have ever had. i CAN communicate fine. i am just skeered of it. The blessings of being an ACOA.
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04-01-2011, 07:33 PM
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04-01-2011, 07:36 PM
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04-01-2011, 07:38 PM
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04-01-2011, 07:38 PM
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04-01-2011, 07:48 PM
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Be honest enough to admit when it's your skeletons from the past not me or my behaviour that have caused you to act a certain way.
 I am your new beginning and although I'm not perfect, I'm not them. Don't take your current frustrations with others/life out on me. I will love you and support you and, if necessary, even fight for you, but that ''Well who else can I take it out on'' is the biggest cop out there is. Shout, curse, cry, do whatever it takes to get it out of your system and I'll be there to support you...I won't, however, be your emotional punchbag.  Don't ever presume to know what I feel. If I no longer love you or want to be with you, I will tell you. Promise. For now, though, take it for granted that you are the love of my life and will be until the day I die  And finally....my thinking you're the sexist thing on two legs is conditional on your never, ever, doing the following: 1. Taking a crap with the bathroom door open.  2. Scratching anywhere south of your navel and higher than the hem of your boxers.  3. Allowing your belching/farting to reach deafening proportions. Yes, we all 'do it' (some of us, I might add, with more decorum than others *ahem*) but could we at least keep the decibel level to low? And no, I don't care how comfortable you are in our relationship, I do not consider excessive belching/farting a sign of your deep and lasting affection for me. (Do some people actually fall for that?)  And one more thing. Plenty of this  ...and these...  ...and this  might just make me turn a blind eye to your infatuation with Glee, that crazy online gardening thing over on Facebook, and mismatched underwear. Perhaps. They will never however replace your smile, your smell, or how I feel when you reach for my hand. The first group of things I enjoy...the second group I adore. Words |
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04-07-2011, 12:37 PM
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don't let troublemakers bug you
don't stop listening to your gut don't ignore those red (or even mauve) flags, they will haunt you |
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