The Female Male ID "Wars"... or Great Divide

[Dylan]

Once again, butch/femme equals lesbian female women (even though even some femmes don't ID as lesbian or female or women), and male IDs shouldn't be here...they should be on their own site for their own kind

Because having to skip over 'so many' threads is just too damned hard

And apparently, it's also hard to start a lesbian/female/woman thread


Dylan

Met, here's one of those examples you were asking for earlier

[Linus]

Originally Posted by Dylan

Once again, butch/femme equals lesbian female women (even though even some femmes don't ID as lesbian or female or women), and male IDs shouldn't be here...they should be on their own site for their own kind

Because having to skip over 'so many' threads is just too damned hard

And apparently, it's also hard to start a lesbian/female/woman thread


Dylan

Met, here's one of those examples you were asking for earlier

Actually, Dylan, I'm gonna disagree with you on one part of this. I don't think it's enough to just "start a lesbian/female/woman thread". I think it's a feeling of belonging and having a place to call one's own.

Kobi, as I've said in my PM, I would like to create a lesbian "zone" (naming is open) and would like to you use post as the launching point of that if you are ok with that. I think it has merit and I've gotten supportive feedback from Medusa on it as well.

[Dylan]

Originally Posted by Linus

Actually, Dylan, I'm gonna disagree with you on one part of this. I don't think it's enough to just "start a lesbian/female/woman thread". I think it's a feeling of belonging and having a place to call one's own.

Kobi, as I've said in my PM, I would like to create a lesbian "zone" (naming is open) and would like to you use post as the launching point of that if you are ok with that. I think it has merit and I've gotten supportive feedback from Medusa on it as well.

Linus,

I wasn't talking about the Lesbian Zone part. I actually agreed with that part. And I so get that.

But the 'start your own site' is where I had a problem (for the record to anyone who's unaware...there are transmen sites). This is a lesbian/woman/female space? I had a problem. Butch/femme is women/lesbian/female? I had a problem. Men are the enemy...warning bells go off? I had a problem. Why aren't there any lesbian threads in the gender forum? Start one.


Dylan