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			Mom had an echocardiogram which came back normal. This means she can start chemo on the 30th.   
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I hope she'll be strong enough to go. She's so sick right now. Barely eating or drinking. She gets weaker each day. I'm hoping to some how get her feeling better by Tuesday. I'm also hoping the chemo works and works quickly.  | 
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 Do you know how to make or have access to bone stock? It can be so nutrient dense and easy to digest, it might help her build up some strength. It's not hard to make. I'd be happy to talk you through it if you need a hand.  | 
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 She does have a port. I don't know how to make it but I was recently reading about it. Do you have a recipe? I will also Google it. Thanks for the suggestion, EGF!  | 
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 There are a lot of ways to make stock. If you have a crock pot/slow cooker it's easiest. When I had cancer I couldn't handle touching meat but I had friends with a farm and they would make this for me any time they were processing a chicken or turkey. I usually start with roasting a chicken and then breaking it down. But it doesn't have to be chicken. Beef bones can make the stock thicker though and that's not always desired- though it does add more protein. Put all of the bones and some of the bone meat into crock pot. Add in celery garlic onions mushrooms carrots turmeric salt and a small splash of vinegar (vinegar just helps break up the bones to release more nutrients). I also really like turnips in there. Top with water to about two inches from the top. Cook on low for at least 8 hours. Strain. Serve. You can do all of the same stovetop with a big pot. It's just easier with a crock pot so you don't have to watch it so much. If you can get Miso paste to make miso broth that's also super high protein and healthy to drink when you can't get food down. Last edited by easygoingfemme; 06-26-2020 at 09:50 AM.  | 
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			Thank you, Easy! I'm going to do this tomorrow. Mom has a Crock-Pot. We also have a instant pot which I've only used three times. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I am going to try to get her eating as much as possible today. She had a horrible night but I made her eat a pudding cup and then I mixed a BeneCalorie into a small glass of Carnation breakfast drink and had her drink that. She's sleeping now but when she wakes up I'll make her eat again. I appreciate your input. I'm going to go with the chicken. Any other suggestions please send them my way. Thanks again! ~W  | 
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			If you need to mix medicine into something, applesauce can be a good mix.  The dairy might be hard on her stomach right now...
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I am in the emergency department with my mother.  She began vomiting and must have dislodged the PEG tube because it started leaking. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			I want to let everyone know that my mom passed away this morning. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Wrangler, I think I can safely say that your love, deep affection and determined efforts to keep your Mom comfortable in such anguishing times touched all of us here, even to the point that now, in some small way, we share your sorrow. As a stranger and as family, I am so sorry Wrangler. 
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			Oh Wrangler.  I'm so very sorry to hear this.  My heart is with you and your family.  You have been with your mom thick and thin through this.  You gave it your all to be there for and with her and she knew that and you know that.  But that doesn't take away the hurt and loss.  My heart is with you and your family tonight.
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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 She is always going to live inside you & your heart. I know there are no words, but do know you are in my heart & my thoughts always...more so now. (((((((((((((((((W))))))))))))))))). My deepest sympathies & condolences to you & your family, Wrang! Take care my friend!! 
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			![]() Wrangler...So sorry to hear of your Mom's passing 
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			We both are saddened by the news if your mom's passing. Know our prayers are with you and your family during this time. If you ever need a shoulder in which to lean on, scream into please reach out 
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			Today I was scheduled for my PET scan next Wednesday morning. I am a little worried since the last night a new tumor was found. I dont have the dread I had in April prior to the scan. I try to be upbeat about it all but we all know at times our mind can run wild with us . Hope everyone is doing well. Wrangler you are still in our prayers 
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			Thank you, kittygirl. Her memorial service was yesterday. I think she would have been pleased with it. I'm glad that part is over. I miss her and it's still hard to believe she's gone. The only solace is knowing she isn't in pain or suffering. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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