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Superlative Soul Sister
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More on the ACE Scores.
https://americanspcc.org/take-the-aces-quiz/ The quiz score is based on ten types of childhood trauma measured in the ACE Study. Five are personal — physical abuse, verbal abuse, sexual abuse, physical neglect, and emotional neglect. Five are related to other family members: a parent who’s an alcoholic, a mother who’s a victim of domestic violence, a family member in jail, a family member diagnosed with a mental illness, and the disappearance of a parent through divorce, death or abandonment. You get one point for each type of trauma. The higher your ACE score, the higher your risk of health and social problems. As your ACE score increases, so does the risk of disease, social and emotional problems. With an ACE score of 4 or more, things start getting serious. The likelihood of chronic pulmonary lung disease increases 390 percent; hepatitis, 240 percent; depression 460 percent; suicide, 1,220 percent. The most important thing to remember is that the ACE score is meant as a guideline: If you experienced other types of toxic stress over months or years, then those would likely increase your risk of health consequences. Fortunately, our brains and lives are somewhat plastic, which means our mental and physical health can improve. The appropriate integration of resilience factors born out of ACE concepts — such as asking for help, developing trusting relationships, forming a positive attitude, listening to feelings — can help people improve their lives. ____________________ And here’s a link to a Ted Talk by Dr. Nadine Burke Harris on how childhood trauma affects health across a lifetime. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uXXTLf7oouU&t |
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The survey failed to address children whose parent put their kids in a psychiatric hospital during the formative years (puberty age 11-14). That is an experience that molds from then on.
Its an experience that can could effect every day and every activity. It effects each and every thought. No shrink, counselor, religion, god can help get through this. Few meds give release, some street drugs, nothing liquid helps. Anyone have a severe lack of the ability to speak or do any activity wout significant planning? Spontaneity gone? |
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The last time you-know-who was in office (during Covid-19 era), I was triggered daily by the raunchy nasal voiced creep who was ‘elected’ to be the president of our country. It’s no different today but I will say I don’t know how long I can withstand the relentless BS his 2.0 version of presidency I can stand. I can’t stand by and let this A-hole rob me of my life by triggering me with his narcissism (I’ve been in a prior relationships with a narcissist — scary stuff). I still can hardly believe what his political party and co-conspirators are getting away with in our country.
Where’s the fucking outrage? When will these law breakers become outcasts and be dethroned altogether? Why are Americans letting him get away with this? I’m glad our northern and southern neighboring countries are not putting up with his fucking BS. I feel betrayed by others in our country because they’d rather have a felon and book cooker and sex predator for a president. He’s not my president. Not now, not ever.
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I was at a memorial on Sunday and there were lots of people there that I have known for a long time. There seemed to be a consensus that everyone is limiting the amount of time they can listen to the news daily. For most people it is under an hour a day. You-know-who is triggering everybody.
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