what NOT to do in a relationship.......

Soon · 07-30-2010, 09:03 AM

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Originally Posted by MrSunshine

Yes, same can be said for butch/he/she/whatnot should be like. Individuality is hard for some to separate I suppose.

yes, i was going to edit it to include the other way around too, but i got caught up in something.

it seems like people were posting from their *me* space so that is why i originally wrote what i did.

but i agree with you! some may wish to mash a new lover into an old or set mental framework (for either gender)--not cool.

The_Lady_Snow · 07-30-2010, 09:07 AM

Please disclose any kind of mental illness, sexual illness, ANY kind of illness early on in the relationship.

No surprise body take overs from your Russian Uncle making you speak tongues and all that or violent outbursts where I am having to dodge candles and the cookie jar cause you forgot to mention you had MPD.

TenderKnight · 07-30-2010, 09:31 AM

mmm.. Very good one.. I once had an ex that was skitzo-effective (spl).. I didn't know about it until she stopped taking her meds.. WOW.. When your partner seriously shushes you everytime you talk above a whisper *because the neighbors can hear*.. and you can't listen to the radio because of the microphones your boss installed.. Or talk at all when a plane is flying above and they are listening to us.. That is when you know it's getting pretty heavy..

Now, granted, I am still not sure if she *knew* she was that sick or not.. Her dad was sending her "allergy" meds for years until she started wondering why she was taking so many allergy meds.. *sighs*

Full disclouser is a GOOD thing, folks.. If I am going to be your partner, I deserve to know everything that is going on with you that would effect our lives together.

Apocalipstic · 07-30-2010, 10:13 AM

The first time they check your cell phone for texts and you they demand an explanation for all your contacts, they need to GO!

The first time they start nagging about how much caffeine free diet coke you drink or why you iron your jeans...buh bye!

If their Mom thinks its OK to call for no emergency at 5am. Ciao!

and yeah, if they are jealous of the DOG, what can I tell ya.....

Maybe sleeping with them and getting poisoned by the pussy on the first date is not such a good idea. Causes dain bramage. Then by the time you (meaning I) recover it is often too late.

Soon · 07-30-2010, 10:27 AM

"poisoned by the pussy!"

Rockinonahigh · 07-30-2010, 10:32 AM

After reading through all thats been posted,it seems I really dodged a huge pot hole by staying single all these years..holy gosh!!

asphaltcowboi · 07-30-2010, 12:34 PM

when having coffee and reading the paper if she says why arnt you LOOKING at me your not even hearing what i say..DO NOT REPLY try turning around.

07-30-2010, 09:07 AM	#2
The_Lady_Snow MILLION $$$ PUSSY How Do You Identify?: Kinky, Raw, Perverted, Uber Queer Alpha Femme Preferred Pronoun?: Iconic Ms. Relationship Status: Keeper of 3, only one has the map to my freckles Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: La Reina del Sur Posts: 22,488 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 32,231 Thanked 80,077 Times in 15,669 Posts Rep Power: 21474874	Please disclose any kind of mental illness, sexual illness, ANY kind of illness early on in the relationship. No surprise body take overs from your Russian Uncle making you speak tongues and all that or violent outbursts where I am having to dodge candles and the cookie jar cause you forgot to mention you had MPD. __________________ "If you’re going to play these dirty games of ours, then you might as well indulge completely. It’s all about turning back into an animal and that’s the beauty of it. Place your guilt on the sidewalk and take a blow torch to it (guilt is usually worthless anyway). Be perverted, be filthy, do things that mannered people shouldn’t do. If you’re going to be gross then go for it and don’t wimp out."---Master Aiden

07-30-2010, 09:31 AM	#3
TenderKnight Member How Do You Identify?: Kinky Poly Transman Preferred Pronoun?: He Join Date: Apr 2010 Location: Monroe, NC Posts: 551 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 773 Thanked 822 Times in 256 Posts Rep Power: 2402408	mmm.. Very good one.. I once had an ex that was skitzo-effective (spl).. I didn't know about it until she stopped taking her meds.. WOW.. When your partner seriously shushes you everytime you talk above a whisper because the neighbors can hear.. and you can't listen to the radio because of the microphones your boss installed.. Or talk at all when a plane is flying above and they are listening to us.. That is when you know it's getting pretty heavy.. Now, granted, I am still not sure if she knew she was that sick or not.. Her dad was sending her "allergy" meds for years until she started wondering why she was taking so many allergy meds.. sighs Full disclouser is a GOOD thing, folks.. If I am going to be your partner, I deserve to know everything that is going on with you that would effect our lives together. __________________ The beatings shall continue.. until moral improves..

07-30-2010, 10:13 AM	#4
Apocalipstic Pink Confection How Do You Identify?: Femme Preferred Pronoun?: She, Her, Ma'am Relationship Status: Dating Myself Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Nashville Posts: 4,266 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 17,195 Thanked 11,362 Times in 2,838 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	The first time they check your cell phone for texts and you they demand an explanation for all your contacts, they need to GO! The first time they start nagging about how much caffeine free diet coke you drink or why you iron your jeans...buh bye! If their Mom thinks its OK to call for no emergency at 5am. Ciao! and yeah, if they are jealous of the DOG, what can I tell ya..... Maybe sleeping with them and getting poisoned by the pussy on the first date is not such a good idea. Causes dain bramage. Then by the time you (meaning I) recover it is often too late. __________________

07-30-2010, 10:27 AM	#5
Soon Infamous Member How Do You Identify?: femme Relationship Status: attached Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: . Posts: 6,896 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 29,046 Thanked 13,094 Times in 3,386 Posts Rep Power: 21474858	"poisoned by the pussy!"

07-30-2010, 10:32 AM	#6
Rockinonahigh Senior Member How Do You Identify?: stone butch Preferred Pronoun?: makes no diffrence,I know who I am. Relationship Status: single,maybe looking if the right person comes along. Join Date: Dec 2009 Location: shreveport,Louisiana Posts: 4,907 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 4,682 Thanked 14,933 Times in 3,938 Posts Rep Power: 21474856	After reading through all thats been posted,it seems I really dodged a huge pot hole by staying single all these years..holy gosh!!

07-30-2010, 12:34 PM	#7
asphaltcowboi Senior Member How Do You Identify?: butch Relationship Status: HAPPY Join Date: Jun 2010 Location: ..... Posts: 1,509 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,367 Thanked 3,297 Times in 1,042 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	when having coffee and reading the paper if she says why arnt you LOOKING at me your not even hearing what i say..DO NOT REPLY try turning around.