Picking apart a femme

SuperFemme · 08-19-2010, 11:27 AM

Usually the picking apart for *me* happens by other Femmes. I have been mostly adored, respected, loved, and enjoyed friendships with other Femmes, Butches (of all ID's, Transmen, Transwomen, Human Beings and Nuns.

My insecurities do not equal a lack of sensitivity on the part of others.

Soft*Silver · 08-19-2010, 11:33 AM

I love this statement.

But in reality, I do have some insecurities and it is with my loved one that I need to feel the most secure with about them. I dont have huge insecurities. Not like I am a landmine course and any step can set off a (minor) ouchie, but sometimes, it does happen.

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Originally Posted by SuperFemme

Usually the picking apart for *me* happens by other Femmes. I have been mostly adored, respected, loved, and enjoyed friendships with other Femmes, Butches (of all ID's, Transmen, Transwomen, Human Beings and Nuns.

My insecurities do not equal a lack of sensitivity on the part of others.

SuperFemme · 08-19-2010, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by softness

I love this statement.

But in reality, I do have some insecurities and it is with my loved one that I need to feel the most secure with about them. I dont have huge insecurities. Not like I am a landmine course and any step can set off a (minor) ouchie, but sometimes, it does happen.

That is the thing Softness. I find for *me* that if I am with those who love me the most and my insecurities are going to be magnified by that love? I do well with bringing it up BEFORE it happens.

"I want you to know that if you make fun of my pot belly I'll stab your eyes out"

"If you ever call me four eyes, I'll give you two black eyes"

TeeHee.

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