Ode to Butches

Hudson · 12-29-2009, 12:02 AM

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Originally Posted by BullDog

Why are butch women supposed to welcome some long ode allegedly written by a man in a personal ad and supposed to want to discuss it on a butch femme website?

You're not. But an 'ode to butches', no matter by whom it was written, is appropriate subject matter for a butch/femme website. Where better to discuss it? Someplace that would not handle it with the same knowledge and respect? And why do you feel the need to monitor and control what other people want to discuss just because you don't?

BullDog · 12-29-2009, 12:07 AM

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Originally Posted by Hudson

You're not. But an 'ode to butches', no matter by whom it was written, is appropriate subject matter for a butch/femme website. Where better to discuss it? Someplace that would not handle it with the same knowledge and respect? And why do you feel the need to monitor and control what other people want to discuss just because you don't?

Why do you keep insisting on discussing it when no butch woman has shown an interest.

Hudson · 12-29-2009, 12:09 AM

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Originally Posted by BullDog

Why do you keep insisting on discussing it when no butch woman has shown an interest.

Edit: it was a personal ad, not something I need to handle with knowledge and respect.

In case you didn't notice (maybe she was invisible) there was a femme in the discussion.

BullDog · 12-29-2009, 12:12 AM

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Originally Posted by Hudson

In case you didn't notice (maybe she was invisible) there was a femme in the discussion.

Oh so a femme and a trans guy want to discuss how butch women are homophobic and transphobic because a man (didn't say he was trans) wrote an ode and we aren't interested in talking about and are not flattered.

Kosmo · 12-29-2009, 12:14 AM

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Originally Posted by June

Simmer down, please. If you have beefs with one another, take it private or choose to disengage. It's starting to escalate in here.

--June

Posted my last same time as you, June. I'm going to have a nice cup of tea now.

NotAnAverageGuy · 12-29-2009, 12:21 AM

I personally do not see anything wrong with a man posting an ode to a butch woman.

I have lots of bio male friends and trans friends who love butch women, as friends or more. I think if someone or a class of people are being complimented, take it as a compliment and move on in life, it just shows that y'all are appreciated.

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NotAnAverageGuy Timed Out How Do You Identify?: Trans Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Texas Posts: 1,723 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 109 Thanked 282 Times in 178 Posts Rep Power: 0	I personally do not see anything wrong with a man posting an ode to a butch woman. I have lots of bio male friends and trans friends who love butch women, as friends or more. I think if someone or a class of people are being complimented, take it as a compliment and move on in life, it just shows that y'all are appreciated.