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okay...i'm smoking waaaaaay too much. it's like i want to put food in my mouth and to stop it i light a ciggie. before you start....i smoke because it makes the drugs work better. that's not a con. you can look it up. but i've gone from 4 or 5 a day to 10 or 15 a day.
trying to replace the extra ciggies with non-oral habits. (quit snickering gemmie) i was drinking a big glass of water whenever i wanted a ciggie but it makes my tummy swimmy to drink that much water all the time (i already drink a lot of water) and i really dont want to reinforce the "put something in your mouth" thingy. yanno? shootdamnfuck |
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![]() ![]() Okay, so I MIGHT have snickered....just a little bit! Have you had the opportunity to try the electric(al) cigarette thingy? That way, you can choose when to use your 'helps the drugs flow' sticks versus the 'need something in your mouth' thing. |
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is it the same Gemmie? it gives you a hit of nick? right? it's $100+ to start the ECThingy. but i'm going to be looking into it. thanx for the suggestion. i appreciate you! |
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if i get it i have to move in with you in order to recover from the financial devastation. but i'm martha stewart's white trash sister so you'll be fed, pampered and decorated within an inch of your life. and i have a cute
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?If so, bring it, sistah! On a slightly on topic point, I've done pretty well today, as far as working out and my food intake. Of course, I still have dinner and supper before the day is done and I'm having angel food cake with canned pears for dessert, so I know my sugar % will go up, but not as bad as yesterday (951% of my rda as determined by thedailyplate.com) |
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I set up a live journal account
we will see how this goes perhaps I need to take some risks
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It releases a vapor in your mouth. Not only does it taste horrible, it leaves a horrific aftertaste kinda coating on your tongue. I realize that to non smokers this may sound like an improvement, but it really isnt. |
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I quit smoking (again) 29 days ago. I have smoked on and off since I was 13 or 14. I did the patch for four days but broke out in a rash, so after 4 days I went cold turkey. It was time. I did it for me, but it was also a gift to someone I love who wanted me to stop. Love and devotion is a great motivator for me.
The quitting smoking and the exercising are the best things for me. Dealing with smoking people around me is horrid. The third day I quit I went to a party where everyone was smoking in every room...hard to get away from it. LOL Sometimes that is no different than trying to get away from sugar! My personal trainer is a body builder gay boy. I love him. I hate him. I love him. I hate the mean dirty bastard. I love the mean dirty bastard. I posted a pic of him in my gallery. He is also glad I have stopped smoking and loves and kisses me into doing what I need to do for myself. Somehow I find it easier to follow through with someone who also LIVES what they demand of me. LOL ![]() I am not good at journals. In fact I don't really do them at all. Talullah Bankhead once said, "Only the good girls keep dairies, the bad ones don't have the time." I have tried, I do better at writing poetry and prose to express my feelings! But that is just me! ![]()
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Congrats, darling. I am so happy you're taking the steps needed to be brave and face this crap head on
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Sooooo........
The trip to washington was so exciting I actually fuggin HIKED!!!!! It was sooooooo liberating. I kept thinking what the hell are you trying to prove candace you can't do this......you're terrified of the outdoors and you're too out of shape. But I blocked out those thoughts and just did it. IT was so exciting to know that I could complete a trail. 2 of them in 1 day in fact. Wow.... Hikes are so much fun, in case some of you haven't ever tried it. It's really awesome to be out with nature. We hike a moss trail in the rainforest. Which, was BEAUTIFUL!!!!! I did almost perfect with eating. At the very end of the last day I was STARVING we had hiked and I had been eating low cal all weekend. So, I fuggin binged at wendy's. I had their grilled chicken club sandwich with no mayo and small fries and chicken nuggets with honey mustard sauce. All together over 1000 calories. *sigh* It's not a huge decline. At least I didn't eat a greasy burger or taco bell. Wendy's has the lowest caloric food....and fresh ingredients. *sigh again* Anyway, it's back to home cooking again, which I feel MUCH safer with. *nod* Love you all.... |
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Well I went shopping today and bought stuff to make smoothies. I pre-made tomorrow's ... or at least it is in the fridge so the frozen fruit can soften up. I am determined to do a smoothie for breakfast EVERY day this week.
![]() I also bought a scale...did I say this already? It's a huge thing for me because I detest weighing myself. But this one is in the kitchen so I can just hop on it once a week or so. I am going to put this out there. I weigh 245 lbs as of today. Now to wait the thirty minutes so I can't erase that. That is not a healthy weight for me due to my back problems. I love my body as it is but the extra weight's gotta go bye bye. Rock on on the hiking, Candace. There's a guy who talks about his diet method. He is fierce on himself 6 out of 7 days. The 7th day he doesn't worry about it at all. So I think you should forgive yourself the Wendy's. ![]() |
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Oh, hell honey, I would not be caught dead in a gym. Just ew. I have a workout room in my complex.
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funny. i'm glad i didnt dig deeper then. i smoke ciggies that dont leave the blechy taste in my mouth (thank the stars for imports since they're illegal to sell in the US now). i dont want to give them up for the "healthier" version if it's twice as yucky tasting. i'm making myself put one out halfway through. it's sort of working. so rather than smoking 15 a day i'm smoking about 10 so far. hoping to get back down to 5 a day in 2 weeks or less. |
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OMGOMGOMGOMGOMGGGGG!!!!
I'm SOOOOO excited right now... I just joined the biggest loser club online. It was 29.95 for 3 months plus you get 3 books!!! Wow...anyway... It is so exciting b/c it makes your meal plans and your exercise plan and also gives you your grocery list for the week. SOOOOO awesome. If you don't like the meals they pick you can swap them for something else. Just another tool to help me along my way. If you're interested or need more information let me know
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Candace, sweetness,
You've actually motivated me a little. I've known I was gaining too much weight for a while now. I was ready to start an exercise plan when my arm and my knee sort of "went out" (dont' want to go into that in detail, just know I can't do much at this moment but I am getting it fixed). I will start with changing what I can, until I can exercise correctly. I am cutting out ginger ale (yes, I started drinking soda again, wtf was I thinking???) and cutting back on my portions. I'm going to check out the biggest loser things you've mentioned so I can make healthier food. I'm cheering you on, Candace. -Mr. Moon |
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