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	If the corset feels good , do it. If your too cinched up and can barely breathe , dont. I think these are sexy   http://www.barenecessities.com/seven...9282XB&search= 24 bucks with a hint of black lace underneath less is more that's my vote  
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			Speaking as someone who loves ligerie, I say go for it! I think it's awesome that you came on here and made a thread to ask opinions and are wanting to please the lust outa your butch... btw hello and welcome to the Planet!!  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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			PS. Corsets are freakin' hot as hell!! Just sayin'
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			Toughy has said everything I would've and everyone else has covered all the other relevant points. Please know this, your sexual confidence and strength will rock your Butch's world, guaranteed. 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	Sexual confidence in lingerie/corset with garter belt? --would make my head explode. *Butch Thud* (but the confidence is the key my dear....."act as if"....) Have a great weekend--please come back next week and let us all know how it went!  | 
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			A little wary to report my opinion here being a dude and all... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	I think being honest and open about who you are and what you want is so important. If you are comfortable in the corset and enjoy it...then enjoy it. It your partner has an issue with it...i'd be really surprized if they did. But, if so, then you learn to be with someone who appreciates and likes what you like. I hope you do what you want and the butch likes it. Smile  | 
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			I love this thread!  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			Dance, You're already sexy girl, contemplating a corset! Whew! Can I just say, hot! I'm almost 50, plus size and have lingerie, sexy/lace bra and panty sets and even a corset that I like to wear...for play or just for me, under my clothes. Why not? Who says you gotta save your sexy stuff for your partner...I wear my stuff when I feel sexy and undercover too...lol...why not? Yep, under my dresses, clothes, etc...sometimes, a little peep of knee covered in black fishnet in boots and a dress (weather permitting) it's cool/fun when someone notices all of a sudden there's a double take and a look that says wha?...lol...but what it does to your self confidence! lol...get creative! Be you're sexy self all the time, Dance...and enjoy being you. I think you're awesome and gutsy and sexy! Go girl! 
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			Sneaking into the bathroom and changing into one of your friends shirts is a good idea too... I just had a flash of 9 1/2 weeks... 
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			You're all great! Thanks so much! Just reading all your replies is getting my confidence. I didn't realize until I started dating again just how dowdy I'd gotten over the years - when you're married to someone who no desire to touch you for years, it takes a toll on your confidence, no matter how many excuses you make to yourself. But now? Sorry but screw that nonsense -- I'm totally worth it.  
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			While it's true corsets and lace are very sexy, there is a LOT to be said for white cotton... 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
	 
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 I am a HUGE fan of pantaloon like cotton women's intimates.. 
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 ![]() There are a lot of really good suggestions here. My fave is the white, button up shirt with garters and heels. You can literally walk in the door wearing all of it with a skirt. So easy to slip away and change. You cannot drive in a corset and would have to take time to get dressed. So, if the ease of "getting" ready is a concern, I would stick to the button up shirt. Here is another idea for you---if she is into football, you may consider getting a jersey for her fave team. Then, present it her later as a wearable memento.  
		
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			Some time's simple is better...  
		
		
		
		
		
		
			look in the closet that would be my first guess... *just being helpful* Better yet, how about a big RED bow? Torrid is AWESOME! 
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   The lingerie too lol... although to read it on my previous post, one might think I meant for me... nah... for her... but for my enjoyment of viewing also... for sure!!Plain and simple is absolutely sexy hot too... Not always does a lady have to be sinched up and bound... but it sure is nice here and there and in between!! Yes the plain and simple... I like!!  
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			I have been looking at pretty bras for the last hour? I'm supportive, 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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			My absolute favorite nightgowns are the tissue-thin hand-smocked white cotton gowns that I inherited from my beloved Granny. My ex of course never appreciated them, but I am highly titillated at the idea of some hot butch finding it a total turn-on to see me in my Granny's nighties!
		 
		
		
		
		
		
		
		
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