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09-13-2012, 09:33 PM
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"research"
 seriously , how funny are we? I have never seen anyone get a welcoming committee , quite like this , that I can remember |
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09-13-2012, 10:19 PM
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Seriously, you have no idea how much I need and would LOVE to have a bunch of femme's to go shopping with me and help me figure out what looks good on me, then return home to give me a femme-in-her-50's makeup lesson (I don't wear makeup everyday and can do a basic subtle application just fine but don't know how to do my makeup when I want impact without going overboard), then hang with the boys/butches to get their honest feedback. Anyone want to meet me at Torrent in Annapolis tomorrow afternoon to help me pick something out?  I've only been in this community a few hours and already I feel that I've found My People. 
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09-13-2012, 10:41 PM
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09-13-2012, 10:58 PM
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I could help with the shopping part
and even say "girl, I don't think so" if something is not quite right (sometimes the girlfriends might lie to be "nice", not me, one look at my face says it all) then we could do lunch  and go to the salon make up.. subtle eyeliner and pretty lashes , light on the brows and the rest of it and you'll look smashing  I think it's great you are coming out of a funk. She likes you already , just as you are , so remember that too. |
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09-14-2012, 01:17 AM
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what Dude said:
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09-14-2012, 01:32 AM
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OMHO...Most importantly, YOU need to feel sexy about yourself. If you get that internal nasty, naughty, sensual feeling, you could rock a potato sack and be sexy. The sexy starts within. I am 51, and sometimes, when the planets are aligned, I'm feeling good about ME, I can have Tinkerbell sleep shorts and a cutupt-shirt like in Flashdance, there is NOOO stopping the sexy that exudes from every pore of my being.
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09-14-2012, 02:00 AM
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hi dance welcome to the planet as u can see by the responses u have received we r all very sexual woman . Sometimes availability may hinder sexy lingerie .In your better stores macys, Victoria Secret's ,Bloomingdales, hell even a store like Ranibow Fashions will sell very sexy seductive lingerie.. I find a camasole w/ garters works too ~ BUT now this is imprtant:Be confident~ the seduction prior to the bedroom is more imp. than what u have on.Wether u r wearing sexy lingerie under a sundress or a wrap silky robe, tease ur butch. The "dance" b4 u get in that bedroom will captivate , set the sceen.Don't loose ur lovers attention. While having dinner ,as u cross ur legs, open ur robe so that one leg shows ur gater., always having ur butchs ineterest. As u clean up the plates, kiss ur lover, lean into hym, keep teasing ~ slowly remove ur stockings, let hym appreciate ur movements.Use ur hands, and glide them around different parts of your body. Move to music..When hy approaches u ... be ready.ur eyes will let hym take u.. buy that sexy lingerie...and btw a camasole is very flattering to a womans figure regardless of size.and it can be worn w. or without the garters its a staple for a woman to have a few in her wardrobe. enjoy eachother
confidence is always the most sexiest part of u ..when gently shown.~
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09-14-2012, 05:11 AM
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I think it's fabulous the responses that Dance has received. It's really tough when you're in a relationship without sexual contact with your lover. It's tough on your confidence. Add to the soup being 40 or 50+ and constantly being bombarded with extremely slender young women as the image of sexiness
 ... it's lovely knowing curves are appreciated.
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09-14-2012, 01:40 AM
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This. So much. ----- Also - I love the 2 shirt ideas: wearing one of her button down shirts with stockings and garters - or an over sized jersey of her fave team which she can then keep. lol, I apparently like those two ideas so much that I had a hard time typing the above sentence out - so many typos, I had to keep deleting and editing - if we were all face to face, I probably would have been stuttering! oy  Dont get me wrong, corsets and teddies are nice - but sometimes, the most "innocent" idea can work just as well.  |
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09-15-2012, 09:05 PM
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10-02-2012, 02:03 PM
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Hell if hy/she doesn't like the corset---fly out here where we have slut night for ALL AGES AND SIZES. What makes the corset is the confidence of the femme wearing it. As others have said, 'work it'.
The best surprise I got from a femme was from one that said she'd NEVER wear one---hot damn when she did. *waving from San Francisco, Rope-- |
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10-02-2012, 06:18 PM
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in case folks don't know.......Slut Night was named by the femmes who come to B/F Socials gatherings......
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10-02-2012, 07:20 PM
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Inquiring minds, purely as a sociological question, of course...
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10-03-2012, 02:03 PM
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Slut Night is where you put your sexy on however that seems fit for you. NO lingerie required and for butches it usually means, rough trade dress. It's a time that we get together and socialize--singles and couples.
Slut Night got started because a man dared to tell one of the femmes in our company that she was dressed 'too slutty' for the Gay bar we were in---and well, the next time we got together it was a case of, 'you thought that was slutty...' Rope-- |
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