When a Femme meets a Butch... dating advice!

[Ginger]

Originally Posted by Dance-with-me

We discussed briefly some things that we've seen posted on facebook, including some organizations that we both follow through facebook, and from that I found her on facebook - would it be completely inappropriate to send a friend request?

I think when someone discloses that they're on FB, they're demonstrating that they trust you with that knowledge and understand that it gives you the option of friending them.

I think it would be completely appropriate to send her a friend request.

My only hesitation would be, why is she dropping hints and not being more forthright? Maybe she's just a little shy, no harm in that. Or maybe she's kind of passive, which would not be so fun for you, I'm guessing.

Or maybe we're overthinking the whole thing. Friend her! I friend people I barely know, because we're in the same community or have some other thing in common. It's not such a big deal, to many.