Marriage Titles

o222Good · 03-30-2013, 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Chancie

For those of you who prefer the title 'husbutch', do you see yourselves using that word out and about, in your everyday lives?

I have given this some thought, and my answer is this. It comes down to whether I am talking to a straight person, in which case, I would not. Only because they wouldn't get it. I actually don't have any straight friends, so I'm not sure if this would happen anyway. Thanks for a good question!

julieisafemme · 03-30-2013, 06:39 PM

I love wife! I am happy to be a wife. Greyson prefers spouse for him. Husbutch is fine within the queer community for him but I would not use it with straight people. He will be my spouse.

MsTinkerbelly · 03-30-2013, 08:20 PM

When we were married we had ourselves pronounced as " I now pronounce you as married in the eyes of God and man", And we call each other wife in public. When we say wife it is immediately understood we are queer.

Not personally fond of husbutch, but to each his own.

Gemme · 03-30-2013, 09:03 PM

I give him many titles.

Asshat. Jerk. Baby. Daddy. Snickerdoodle.

He gives me many titles.

Smartass. Brat. Babygirl. Evil incarnate.

Publicly, though I prefer classic and simple terms.

I call him love or my love.

Occasionally, I will address him to others as my other half.

LaDivina · 03-30-2013, 09:22 PM

I call Scorp my wifeband

or spouse, depending on who I'm talking to. I like beloved, though...I might have to start saying that.

She calls me wife. Or wifey-poo.

In our wedding, the officiant (Scorp's cousin) said, "I now pronounce you spouses for life."

o222Good · 03-30-2013, 09:24 PM

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Originally Posted by MsTinkerbelly

" I now pronounce you as married in the eyes of God and man"

Wow! I love this!
Thank you MsTinkerbelly!

03-30-2013, 06:39 PM	#2
julieisafemme Member How Do You Identify?: Femme Woman Preferred Pronoun?: She Relationship Status: Married to Greyson Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: In the present Posts: 828 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 3,156 Thanked 3,434 Times in 660 Posts Rep Power: 21474852	I love wife! I am happy to be a wife. Greyson prefers spouse for him. Husbutch is fine within the queer community for him but I would not use it with straight people. He will be my spouse. __________________ Happiness Bubbling!

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MsTinkerbelly Timed Out - TOS Drama How Do You Identify?: ... Preferred Pronoun?: ... Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: ... Posts: 6,573 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 30,737 Thanked 22,908 Times in 5,019 Posts Rep Power: 0	When we were married we had ourselves pronounced as " I now pronounce you as married in the eyes of God and man", And we call each other wife in public. When we say wife it is immediately understood we are queer. Not personally fond of husbutch, but to each his own. Last edited by MsTinkerbelly; 03-30-2013 at 08:28 PM.

03-30-2013, 09:03 PM	#4
Gemme Practically Lives Here How Do You Identify?: Queer Stone Femme Girl of the Unicorn Variety Preferred Pronoun?: She, as in 'She's a GEM' Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: The roads are narrow here Posts: 36,631 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 182,498 Thanked 107,972 Times in 25,664 Posts Rep Power: 21474888	I give him many titles. Asshat. Jerk. Baby. Daddy. Snickerdoodle. He gives me many titles. Smartass. Brat. Babygirl. Evil incarnate. Publicly, though I prefer classic and simple terms. I call him love or my love. Occasionally, I will address him to others as my other half. __________________ Gemme's Journal I'm misunderestimated.

03-30-2013, 09:22 PM	#5
LaDivina Member How Do You Identify?: Lady-femme Preferred Pronoun?: Lady-ones Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: Central Massachusetts Posts: 524 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 2,084 Thanked 1,725 Times in 413 Posts Rep Power: 20699138	I call Scorp my wifeband or spouse, depending on who I'm talking to. I like beloved, though...I might have to start saying that. She calls me wife. Or wifey-poo. In our wedding, the officiant (Scorp's cousin) said, "I now pronounce you spouses for life."