What makes a Butch "Butch"

Dude · 05-04-2012, 12:12 PM

For me, reading ten pages of posts about how "IT" is oozing
from "our" every pore really doesn't feel all that supportive.
Do femme's ooze out of every pore and if they do are they also helpless?
<cringe> I really hate the stereotyping. ALL of it.
Knight in shining armor bs saving the damsel in distress fantasy?
really?
Can we stop with the harlequin stuff ,one day? please?! snort!

Maybe I'm wrong but femme's seem to have an easier time bonding
with one another. In a way that makes me envious, when it is indeed
a genuine thing

For years, it used to be funny for people to talk about what 2 x 4 idiots
we are.I laughed myself until I "got" that it was not really funny.
Although sometimes quite dense , I am not stupid or simple.
That appears to not be so common any more and I appreciate it.
I'm sure there were wars over "that" that I may have missed.
Maybe we grew up as a community some, I hope so.

False bravado does not impress me. Trying very hard not to toot my own horn
in here so , I'll just say I can sew and have been( more times than not) the most sensitive person, when in a relationship If that makes me less than, in your "ideal vision" of what butch means ,you wouldn't really appreciate me anyway. I also hate watching sports but I will play them
( maybe)

We are all very different and that's fine
not stone,stone,bottom's,top's,female identified,male identified
31 flavors and then some
nobody gets the top slot and I am not taking a back seat for anyone

I've seen lumberjack guys sporting kilts ( just because they want to) and I admire the hell out of grown men who cry when it hits them.

05-04-2012, 12:12 PM	#11
Dude Senior Member How Do You Identify?: Butch Relationship Status: Perusing Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: exit 5 with an exit 21 goal Posts: 1,725 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 15,351 Thanked 10,605 Times in 1,477 Posts Rep Power: 21474853	For me, reading ten pages of posts about how "IT" is oozing from "our" every pore really doesn't feel all that supportive. Do femme's ooze out of every pore and if they do are they also helpless? <cringe> I really hate the stereotyping. ALL of it. Knight in shining armor bs saving the damsel in distress fantasy? really? Can we stop with the harlequin stuff ,one day? please?! snort! Maybe I'm wrong but femme's seem to have an easier time bonding with one another. In a way that makes me envious, when it is indeed a genuine thing For years, it used to be funny for people to talk about what 2 x 4 idiots we are.I laughed myself until I "got" that it was not really funny. Although sometimes quite dense , I am not stupid or simple. That appears to not be so common any more and I appreciate it. I'm sure there were wars over "that" that I may have missed. Maybe we grew up as a community some, I hope so. False bravado does not impress me. Trying very hard not to toot my own horn in here so , I'll just say I can sew and have been( more times than not) the most sensitive person, when in a relationship If that makes me less than, in your "ideal vision" of what butch means ,you wouldn't really appreciate me anyway. I also hate watching sports but I will play them ( maybe) We are all very different and that's fine not stone,stone,bottom's,top's,female identified,male identified 31 flavors and then some nobody gets the top slot and I am not taking a back seat for anyone I've seen lumberjack guys sporting kilts ( just because they want to) and I admire the hell out of grown men who cry when it hits them.