Rethinking our partner wishlists. Is it "settling" or adjusting to reality?

sweetfemme247 · 05-01-2011, 07:54 PM

As I get older I have realized that I cant change anyone, and that I should not try to. I have made some mistakes in my past when it comes to dating, at the time I knew what I wanted and then things changed, things in my life happen and my needs had shifted to something else. Right now If I could have the perfect person they would be, supportive in everything I do, always stand up for me even if I am wrong and then of course tell me I was wrong when we are alone so I dont feel like a idiot. Accept the fact that I am not into parties, drinking, smoking or any of that sort of crowd. Respect and communication is my number 1 thing that I must have.

05-01-2011, 07:54 PM	#5
sweetfemme247 Member How Do You Identify?: fem Preferred Pronoun?: femme, she, her, baby, sweetie Relationship Status: holding my heart close and putting back up a wall Join Date: Nov 2009 Location: california, palm springs Posts: 994 My Photo Gallery Thanks: 206 Thanked 719 Times in 350 Posts Rep Power: 4115671	As I get older I have realized that I cant change anyone, and that I should not try to. I have made some mistakes in my past when it comes to dating, at the time I knew what I wanted and then things changed, things in my life happen and my needs had shifted to something else. Right now If I could have the perfect person they would be, supportive in everything I do, always stand up for me even if I am wrong and then of course tell me I was wrong when we are alone so I dont feel like a idiot. Accept the fact that I am not into parties, drinking, smoking or any of that sort of crowd. Respect and communication is my number 1 thing that I must have. __________________ Happiness is not something you postpone for the future; it is something you design for the present. Jim Rohn