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10-25-2012, 07:02 PM
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And if you don't claim to be living the 50's household life, then my comments aren't relevant to you. Oh and re saying something is wrong vs saying it isn't for me. I don't think this living arrangement is wrong. But holding up as exemplary an arrangement in which the male id'd person has power and privilege by virtue of his gender -- yeah that's wrong. Was wrong, is wrong, will always be wrong. |
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10-25-2012, 07:22 PM
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I hear you regarding the power inequality and what it used to be, but is it that if both partners are equally investing in this lifestyle and if they bear equal weight from it? |
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10-25-2012, 07:24 PM
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Shit. DammitalltoHell.
Sorry about the derail again. Martina, if you'd like to continue to debate with me, I'm okay with that through pms. If not, then maybe the thread can get back on topic. |
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10-25-2012, 07:34 PM
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You can't call a bunch of us out on stuff then say "take it to PMs". Maybe this needs it's own discussion thread? I don't know. I guess it is what it is. People see things differently, but i will stand by my belief that the 50s sucked for most of us. And leave it at that. Sorry for the derail as well.
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