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Originally Posted by Greyson

Also, I do think at times many of us (generalized us that includes FIBs, Butches, Trans Butches and FTMs) including myself, give women partnered with us or not, lip service. Some of us do not really think about what they are saying and how things impact their lives.

Agreed, I am guilty of that ...on this site... anyway.And in my life, in some setting, i am sure... i have offended people with my words. . It is so different online though. Context is everything as was pointed out. Thinking on this myself also. Just trying to be careful with what i say. Cause it is difficult to understand what specific wording would trigger whom....there are many really. Everyone of us has buttons or soft spots that trigger possibly trigger Us. and honestly...i have learned a lot from here already.
At the expense of other peoples feelings too. and i don't like that. That is
on me to understand and hear it and recognize what those words are ...etc.
Impossible for me to know all of the words that would trigger all of the people.
That is rediculous. But, many are good to be aware of.
For me ....it is to not react unkindly..if and when i get triggered.
Because it is not really that person's issue if I have a response. That would be my issue.